how do i stop crying

[Matchy69]

I feel so alone,i dont have many friends or anyone who wants to know what i am going through.I just find my self just breaking down and crying.I just want some one to listen and not to judge me.

[Matchy69]

Hi Mum52 things didn't go real good with the surgery and they couldn't control the bleeding and now it's infected.

[Mum52]

Hi Matchy So sorry that things didn't go so well in your operation. Hopefully they have improved a bit by now. You have been through so much recently I really hope you are getting some help with things. It seems like your the one always helping others please ask for help if you  need it. Take care Mum52

[Matchy69]

Hi Mum52 I am slowly recovering and it will take awhile for a full recovery.I have to go to get my dressing changed and wound cleaned out everyday and will have to go in everyday this week to have it done.They said they will hopefully be able to drop it back to every second day the following week.The heat here hasn't been helping.

[Mum52]

Hi Matchy Sorry your recovery is slow. Do you have someone to take you for your treatment or are you managing yourself. The heat definitely doesn't help things. Fortunately we have had a few cooler days but is going up again from tomorrow.  I hope you have a bit of relief from the heat. Do you have any hobbies or activities that you can do while you are recovering? After I had a car accident quite a few years ago reading was about the only thing I could do for a few weeks. Thankfully the weather was cooler and I could  sit outside for awhile. It's hard to be patient when we can't do the things we want or need to do but your recovery is the most important thing. Take care Mum 52

[Matchy69]

Hi Mum52 I have been managing ok and been going in to the doctors most weekdays.It should be my last appointment tomorrow as it's healing up ok now.Probably another couple of weeks and it should be just about healed.Still need to be careful until it is completely healed.

[Mum52]

Hi Matchy Good to see things are finally healing. You seem to do a lot of caring for your family but remember your health is important too. Are you able to do some things you enjoy. The very hot weather we have had lately tends to limit what we can do.Take care and continue healing Mum52

[Matchy69]

Hi mum52 sorry it's been awhile since I replied.I seemed to mostly healed and don't need to see the doctors for the moment.I have my daughter coming tomorrow for lunch with the grandkids.its been not the best year for me.Hoping next year is a better one.

[Sol]

Hi Matchy,

I read your replies and I'm open to hearing anything you feel like talking about.

I wondered, have you considered contacting a psychologist (if affordable) to help you through this challenging period in your life?

[amd1953]

I find consolation with a large box of facial tissues and take it from there.   I don't have any friends either but that only makes me laugh hysterically.   In fact, I am so happy, i could just scream 🙂   Embrace your aloneness and turn it into oneness!   I will listen. 🙂

[Mum52]

Hi Matchy I hope you had a nice time with your daughter and grandchildren. Sorry 2025 wasn't a good year for you. Hopefully 2026 is better for you  with both your mental and physical health. I hope you can find some things to do that gives you some happiness or joy. Take care Mum52