Hello Dear Farmer...
Im still following along..not replying much but I do care for you dear man....
I’ll be praying for you tomorrow that justice is served on this young girl....and you get your name cleared of any wrong doing....
Please believe in yourself, you done no wrong....Your a beautiful soul that some young girl is trying to destroy...
I pray that you will come out on top..and this can all be put behind you and your lovely family...
My very best wishes dear Farmer...
Hi Farmer and everyone ☺
That's really good to hear. Good on you!
Thanks to BB providing such an incredibly safe non judgemental place makes it possible for so many people doing the super hard yards to find support and advice from people that understand pain & some have been through similar
I too have so much gratitude to bb as I know many do. You know it's most often horrid people causing pain to others like in your situation and here's the other side, the good people helping eachother.
Don't know if you're aware with your situation and how you're coping and holding so incredibly strong would be an inspiration to so many people.
Seeing someone go right down but not making the wrong choice and holding up shows we do have what we need although buried we can dig the strength up. I'm proud if you Farmer 👍gives people hope.
Thanks will be good to know how it goes tomoz. Fingers crossed 🤞
I hear what you're saying about her being smug and laughing. People like that trip and fall eventually usually. She's been getting cocky, they always end up falling. She'd be missing her sister. The life she's living will sometime turn against her. I hope but also think that.
I'm only saying this to try and make your burden lighter dear man and I do it myself all the time. It does your head in.
Try friend to not think too often on how she's laughing etc and taunting youse it'd send me right off. What happens is your pain anger frustration builds and strengthens and stews as you'd know.
If you can see any positives in the situation like it's bought your family closer. There were good times, deep down I suspect she'd be missing the quality youse gave her.
That gives your mind more to focus on in a lighter mode of thought as opposed to churning on the down thoughts that are totally understandable.
Also by redirecting your thinking to what can be done to change the situation which it sounds like from the lawyer there's a lot.
Remember good man keep breathing deeply and feel your muscles physically relax around your shoulders it can help ease the tension.
Thoughts and care to you all 🍃
Farmer hey good to see you ☺ was wondering how you went. Hi all 👋
Hope you're holding up relatively well after another delay.
It'd be infuriating. I commend you holding it together as you are. A gentle reminder to keep reiterating everything that day you realized so much you have to live for.
Mr Farmer April will be here before you know it. Xmas shoots us through to Feb I'm never sure what happens to January. Then as we know time moves us along pretty fast. It can move us in and out of good and hard times. You're all well due for some good luck which is creeping in.
A starts that the cops are wiping their hands of her. Good job! That'd have to I'd hope at least be in your favour as showing her character.
Ok so I feel the more she manipulates and mucks them all around like courts and everyone involved again another look at her character.
Hope someone revs her legal aid too. Assuming she's being advised.
This might help with redirecting your thoughts to potentially some goods in your favour.
I do think she's so self absorbed and troubled she'll trip herself over.
Agreed the $ should be towards her getting the help she needs and agree that if she carries on to the wrong person she'll be in a world of trouble. With luck someone might bring that to courts notice. Seems there's one of many loop holes.
Try to keep in mind when you can remember which is hard because the negatives are in your face, the good you've all done. That takes focus onto a positive good truth.
She's off the rails. From the care you've spoken of she's been well looked after.
Her bubble will eventually burst I reckon.
You're holding up incredibly well under such hard circumstances.
My want and I know many here also would like to see you free of pain and to continue a good life. It's still there matey and so is your loving family and new friends here.
See you later ☺ best to everyone.
Hi Farmer and everyone ☺
I hope you're managing as well as you can with your extra workload on top of your worrying extremely hard times.
Just dropped in to let you know I've read your post and please never worry about talking too much. This is where you can let it all out. I'm glad you are talking because it sounds like it is helping you which is fantastic news.
Yes here is an amazing place. They work hard at maintaining a good space for people to talk openly of their pain without judgement and being safe to do so. I know here's helped untold people in so many ways myself included.
I started yours and another post that I'll be back with as soon as possible. It's very late and a bit off today so a good sleep and new day hopefully will fix.
By the way (Btw) been meaning to ask what sort of animals do you have on the farm. No need to reply to that, only what you're comfy talking about.
Hope your wifes foots improving. Must be hard not being able to have it in full working order.
Ok Mr Farmer. Keep on keeping on good man you're holding up incredibly well under rotten circumstances.
🌿see you later 🖐
We can hear how difficult it must be to cope with these dark thoughts, but please know that you’re never alone, and our community are here for you. It sounds like you have so much on your plate at the moment, with long hours working, on top of the stress that you’re feeling throughout the day and night. Do you think you’d feel up to talking these feelings through with an understanding counsellor? Please always know that our Support Service is here for you 24/7 on 1300 22 4636, as well as our friends at Lifeline on 13 11 14 and the Suicide Call Back Service on 1300 659 467. We’d really encourage you to reach out to the caring counsellors as often as you need during overwhelming moments like these, when these dark thoughts take over.
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Hey there dear Farmer man good on you keeping in touch. It"s so sad knowing good people have to suffer so much pain especially being innocent in a malicious disturbed persons cruel treatment.
I hope you can get some release contacting some of the caring people Sophie suggested. You know we"re not leaving you here don"t you.
Something I"m hoping can put some light on your position is that when your wife's foot improves that"ll be a big load off you with the extra work.
Matey I really do understand for other reasons how our pain gets unbearable and the mind feels it can't take anymore but somehow we do get through and each day we"ve made it and can do another.
Matey please Don"r let this viscious girl beat you. Avoid any thoughts of finishing . You are much stronger than you think friend.
There has to be better times ahead than now. You have a lot of love. Draw on that and support here good man.
Thoughts and wishes for this to be in the past.
Hold on matey . You"re not alone.