Hi everyone,
I'm looking to hear some perspectives about a recent experience I went through with a guy. I met him when I went clubbing, and met up with him a few days later. We ended up making out together, and he was very touchy feely, which I felt a bit uncomfortable with but didn't know how to mention it to him. That was okay, because he wasn't to know I was uncomfortable, but the next time we made out a few days later, he went to unbutton my pants and asked if that was okay, and I said no. However, five minutes later he tried again, even though I'd already said no once. I also told him not to leave any hickeys on my neck, as last time he did and I had to cover them all up for work and when I went out in public. He said that he wouldn't, but when I got home, there were hickeys on my neck again. The final time we made out, which was in the back of my car, he asked me if I wanted to have sex- I didn't really want to, but he kind of persuaded me into it, and made me feel like I shouldn't say no or there was no reason for me to say no. This was also my first ever time both making out with someone and having sex with someone. This whole experience has made me uncomfortable and I think is affecting me more than I initially realised; but am I just overreacting or being stupid about it and maybe it wasn't even that bad or that serious? Opinions would really be appreciated right now guys 🙂
