unsure what to do

[Wednesday]

Hello,

When do you know a relationship is over?

[Guest_5218]

Oh Ava, I'm so sorry. Why didnt you say something before? I knew you hadnt been well, but you never said you were in hospital. At least its where you needed to be, and where they will take care of you.

It does sound as though you are on the improve now, if they are talking about letting you go home tomorrow. But do you have anyone who can help out at home when you do get home? Do you think P will be helpful, or more of a hindrance? I am just concerned that they may let you go home too soon, with no support when you do get home. Does your daughter know you've been in hospital?

If the infusion needs to wait for a bit, then so be it. If its too risky while you arent well, then there really is no choice in the matter.

Yes of course you're struggling. Thats totally understandable. I'm so sorry there isnt something I can do Ava. Such a lovely person as you deserves so much better than what you've been dealt.

Although there is obviously nothing I can physically do to help out Ava, if you ever need to just talk, or complain, or rant and rave .......... I'm here. And no doubt little Happy will have been missing you and will be thrilled to bits to have you home again. Does P look after him okay when you are away?

So very sorry Ava.

Big hug to you.

Sherie xx

[Emmy.]

Wednesday so sorry to hear you're in hospital. Sending you get well wishes. I must be near you somehow as I'm in Melbourne- wish I could come deliver you a little care package. I'd bring you some home made chicken soup, some nice warm ugg boots and a new fuzzy dressing gown plus some lollies as a little treat to such on when you feel like a little sugar hit. Hope P takes good care of you when you go home. All my love to you. Emmy x

[Wednesday]

Hello lovely,

The flowers you sent are lovely just what I needed.

The meds are working, staff lovely and I am feeling a lot better. I try to get out of these places as fast as possible!

Chronic illness is just boring but I have a high pain threshold. But these events are getting a little to familiar for my liking. Oh well my grandson will be very impressed by my ride inside an ambulance! 😀

P will do his best.

I hope to read good things about your new medical regime.

Ive lost track has the birthday party happened. You're a fabulous mum. Lucky babies you have.

Love and hugs. Xxx

[Wednesday]

Thanks Emmy, I love the care package. The dressing gown is just what I need on this chilly morning. I'll be fine.

I'm sorry Melbourne hasn't been a good host for you. Rotten weather today. Pity you're missing out on the tulips too. I hope you have a lovely day.

Love and hugs. Xx

[Wednesday]

Hello dear one,

we all have lots to deal with so mine is just another story.

I'd been to the GP's a few times but obviously didn't stress how bad I felt. That is a problem with chronic disease everything can be attributed to it. Doctors get tired too.

Hospitals are a bit more familiar than I like. I haven't been to this one before though. Everyone is lovely and professional but the buildings are depressingly bad and to small for the volume of people it services. It could do with a good dose of TLC.

P is looking after Happy. He loves him but just likes to complain about him. I miss the little curly one.

Thank you for all your support and care, it means a lot to me.

love and hugs, xxx

[Guest_5218]

Morning Ava. Happy to read that you ae on the improve and feeling a lot better today. Does that mean you may be getting home today?

Yes, I expect it would have elicited great excitement for your little grandson if he had been there for the ambulance trip. I'm sure he will love to hear all about it.

Good to get such a lovely care package while you are in hospital from Emmy too. She is such a caring thoughtful young woman, a true delight.

Okay I must go, but will check back in with you later to see how you are getting along. Perhaps by then you will have had some news about being discharged from hospital.

Much love to you Ava, and may you recover from your pneumonia quickly.

Sherie xx

[Wednesday]

Hello my dear, lovely, friends,

Home to a mad jumpy dog!

The drips were taken out today and I am back to oral medications. I could have stayed longer but needed to get out of there, it was very depressing.

P picked me up. Nothing really changes.

The cortisone meds have me running high so I'm not to be trusted with anything I say for the next little while.

Oh and if you are missing any food I may have eaten it sorry, I get so hungry on this stuff.

Tired.

Hope you are all okay.

Hugs, xxx

[james1]

Hey Ava,

Sorry to hear you were in hospital, but really glad to hear you're back out again. I hope your body's feeling better while the cortisone keeps you on a mental high!

Mad jumpy fluffballs are the best and their happiness is infectious! You can have my little fluffball as well to keep you occupied 🙂 I don't know if you saw him before on my profile picture, but he's a little white maltese x silky, and loves to lick feet.

I hope you get some well deserved rest and food.

many hugs

James

[Lost_Girl]

Hello,

I'm glad you're well enough to go home and I am pleased you feel better there, a bit more positive.

I had to have cortisone meds a lot this last year because all the colds I got would go to my chest and my asthma played up. I understand how it makes you hungry. Quick hide the treats!

Rest well lovely xx

[Wednesday]

Hi James,

Thanks for your post. Thanks for your lovely fluffy dog to cuddle too, I think I did see him looking adorable, much appreciated. I'll send him home to you after another little play.

Later this week my fluffball is to be groomed, umm I hope they leave some curls this time, it's a bit chilly otherwise. He jumped up on the bed this morning, gave me a lick and returned to his bed. It felt like he was just checking I was home.

P has taken to calling me Darth Vader, so I still have a little way to go.

I've read your post and wish had something useful to add, hang in there James.

Hugs, xx