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I always do things ass about

velvetfaerie
Community Member

My first introduction thread after being here FOREVER..... because I always do things backwards...

Velvz. Bipolar.... type? Not sure. I walked out of the psychiatrists office the day he tried putting me on more meds. That was a decade ago.

Anxiety issues. OCD issues. Occasional SH concerns. Checkered history of substance abuse.

I manage for the most part by exercising, good healthy food and good sleep practices. Substances these days are 3 drinks maximum and I'm rat assed.

I work full time. Study part time. Bought my own house years ago. On my own. Ok the bank helped lol!!! Most days for me are 10-14 hours depending. That's work and study and house things and exercise.

At the moment I'm struggling because I believe I've burnt myself out and pushed myself into hypomania. I'm all over the shop. Been here before but no psychosis stuff. Woo.

Oh man I don't know what else to say. No kids. Love kids. But conscious decision not to have my own. Love men. But sadly I'm intolerant to relationships after a while. Moody 😁😁

Animals and music are my passions.

Yeh so..... **** awkward silence***

velvz.

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Details please

you can't just drop that on us with no details

No details to give .

Lol

Sorry was at gym and busy....

just talked about what we both ultimately want in a relationship.... seems we want the same thing.

I knew he wanted it ultimately because every time I joked about marrying a Nordic farmer .... his arms would fold lol!!! zbahahhaaahha.

it won't happen anytime soon though.

v.

Hey Velvet,

That's good right ? You both wanting the same thing . I guess communication is the key here Velvet, make sure any delays are for the right reasons- life's too short to sweat the small stuff.

Lots of hugs coming your way.

Stressless

Communication isn't his strong point 😂

He made me the coolest gift. He has a 3D printer.... so he designed and made a little jewellery box, one of a kind for me. It's got skulls around the box and on top it has a raven skull handle.

Quite possibly the coolest thing ever given to me.

V.

CMF
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member

Hey Velvz,

youre own thread, good for you. I will catch up on it properlay but in the meantime know I am here for you. I'm a big fan of yours.

cmf x

velvetfaerie
Community Member

Thanks CMF.... likewise 🙂🙂🙂

V.

Hey Velvet,

Some people communicate with words. Others with actions like gifts !! You guys really seem to be on the same page- maybe you just need to read it together more

Cheers

Stressless

Oh you are so right Stressless. You really are. Thank you.

I think I've been in bipolar depression last couple months which has been frying my brain hey. I told him that.

I started a diary today so if I get upset over something little and dumb, I can go back to remind myself of the good things. I'm trying to trick my own brains 😋😋😋

I just put the jewellery he gave me into the box.

Yeh. I'm daft lolZ

No not daft at all

Sweet and kind all the things a girl who likes skulls probably cringes at but sorry that's what I see.

Hugs

SL