Agoraphobic with DPD

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i'm new in here...but i have had agoraphobia and DPD for a long time...

sometimes i get angry with annoying people and it affects my mood...

i wish i didn't meet annoying people...then i wouldn't get so angry...

Australia is so stuffed up right now...that is depressing as well...

i try not to watch the news....all rubbish ...lately about the CFMEU and that...

before that the Neo Nazis....i wish they didn't exist..racists should be deported

 

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E_B_just_trying
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I don't have agoraphobia so if I get this wrong I apologise but when I am all "peopled out" I watch YouTube videos of people Wingsuit Flying.  They are only short which helps as I don't have the greatest attention span, but it seems to stop that downward descent for me.  I'd suggest giving the news a miss.  It's not real anymore.  There are a lot of distorted people in the world but not as many as the news makes out.  Most people are like us I think.  Just ordinary people trying to get by.  I believe healthy social interactions are really important but I feel quality alone time is just as valuable.  I found I spent way to much time being anxious about feelings of failing and what others thought of me.  My break from this is pretending I am a child.  I put music on and just "dance" with no inhibition,  Just like a kid would!  Sounds silly saying it ATM but for me it really works! 

As for others who do things I deplore, like racists, I know they are the way they are because they have problems too.  They deal with them in unhealthy ways.  I know the only way forward that works is together so I don't try to change them,  I show them me, being happy, unconcerned with adult life, having fun and laughing like I'm 5.  It's easier than considering the self destructive option I still sometimes consider, but once I get to the part where I can laugh at the silliness of being me, I go to a better state mentally and find I make better choices.  Although I still love Chocolate!