family arguments bc of me

[se3re1]

hey all, hope ur all doing well! i was just looking for some advice/comfort, a bit of a vent.

so my mum and i fight a lot and we both go off at each other. my dad steps in for me as i think my mum is a bit mean to me. but it makes them fight and he says he doesn't like her sometimes and  i just am sick of causing conflict what do i do

and i mean they ARGUE

abt me.

[Psychdiaries2]

Hi there, 

Welcome back to the forums, I'm glad you trust our community and hope you get a lot of different perspectives on here!

I'm sorry to hear about family conflict going on at your place, it can be very upsetting. It's not your fault if your parents are arguing. I can imagine you feel guilty because of it but you can't control what other people say or do, you can only control your own actions. 

I would recommend talking to KidsHelpline where you can speak to a counsellor confidentially and get some advice. They're really good! Here is the number: 1800 55 1800. Or you can talk through web chat: https://kidshelpline.com.au/get-help/webchat-counselling

I hope things cool down and get peaceful soon in your home. Keep reaching out on here, we're here for you 💙

Kind regards,

PsychDiaries