Hello ladygrey, I suspect you know the answer otherwise you wouldn't have taken the time to write it all down. Have a read through that list again, and ask yourself whether that sounds like a healthy relationship.
Just because you've been in an emotionally abusive (actually let's just drop the emotionally part, because you mention physical abuse)... abusive relationship before, doesn't immunise you against being in one again. In fact, you're quite likely to continue being attracted to these types of men until you get to the root cause of how you form your romantic attachments.
My issue is connecting with men who are emotionally unavailable, but leave just enough crumbs on the table to keep you hoping.
It's the same with abusive men, they butter you up once every few days to try and whitewash the earlier abuse. Once you see it written down, you can see how skewed the ledger is.
Please get out, for your own sake, and don't look back.
