Coping with bushfires

Sophie_M
Moderator
Moderator

Beyond Blue would like all individuals accessing our online forums in relation to Australia’s bushfire crisis to know that we are here for them.

If you’re feeling worried, we want you to know that it’s okay and you are not alone.

The impacts of this crisis will be ongoing and everyone will have different experiences, thoughts, feelings and emotions.

Even if you haven't been directly affected by these fires you may still feel sad, overwhelmed, stressed and upset.

We hope that you will use this safe, understanding space to talk, share and support one another on a united front.

It can be difficult to know what to say in times like these.

The forum community have been engaging in discussions that you may find helpful: Are you managing to be ok with all these dreadful bushfires?

You may wish to share what you are doing to help cope, or simply to share your experience with others.

Beyond Blue has developed a dedicated resource about bushfires and mental health, including practical advice about dealing with the emotional impact of bushfires, information about the signs and symptoms of emotional distress, tips for supporting children and young people, and links to several useful websites.

Taking care of yourself:

  • Limit your exposure to social media – it’s okay to have a break and it’s important you make sure you’re not becoming overwhelmed.
  • Speak with our friendly forum community about how you’re feeling
  • Set realistic goals that keep you motivated, but don't take on too much (most people in this situation talk of recovery as a journey not a sprint)
  • Give yourself time

Seeking help when you are in a bushfire affected area:

  • If you require emergency support please contact 000

As a community, let’s help one another through sharing and connecting during this difficult time. This could be by listing links to articles or resources you have found helpful, tips for what is working to help you manage or sharing your thoughts, feelings or experience related to the bushfire crisis.  

Whatever it may be, we're here. 

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Ggrand
Community Champion
Community Champion

Hello Quirky...

Please don’t be sorry..

My silly mind sometimes thinks different then what I read...I sometimes get confused when reading things...

I am pleased your property has been cleared...

Sorry I misunderstood you both Paul and Quirky...

Grandy..

quirkywords
Community Champion
Community Champion

Hello all

grandy I confuse and are confused a lot.

i feel that this thread us needed so people know they are not firbotten

if you suffer nightmares or are nervous due to the fires you are nit alone.

what is one thing you want others to know about bushfires.

For me it is explains to people that I am still going to have good days and not so good days.

i know there are people a lot worse off and who suffered more but we all need acknowledgement of our loss,

Hello Everyone

Hey Quirky and Grandy...I was only trying to keep this thread 'alive' so people can find comfort knowing they are not alone. That aside I could have worded my post a lot better Quirky. Thankyou Grandy for helping others with your warm and heartfelt presence here

If anyone is experiencing difficulty after the 2020 bushfires there are many gentle people that can be here for you

my kind thoughts

Paul

PinkFeather
Community Member
I'm a newbie and am here for a myriad of reasons, I hardly know where to start. I didn't join BB for the fires particularly, but this message board popped up first and I think it is where I am meant to start.

The fires for me happened while already dealing with PTSD and in a way, I really tried not to let them register because it was just too freakin' much! My home was miraculously saved by the most amazing people I'll ever meet, our firies. I've tried to focus on gratitude and have been humbled. I think I need to face up that it's ok that I was so terrified in that fire-storm. Arghhhh it's all too much hey, and I am so greatly comforted to find friends here. Of course we haven't forgotten and I'm not alone. Take care everyone.

Welcome pink feather,

Thanks for making your first post.
I am pleased your house was saved.
Feel free to post as Much as you like.

There is support here.

I am glad you found this thread and if you like browse other threads as well.

Hi PinkFeather

Welcome too and great to have you as part of the forum family 🙂

Thankyou for writing such a heartfelt post and especially mentioning 'fire-storm' Its wasnt a 'bushfire'

PinkFeather also mentioned 'My home was miraculously saved by the most amazing people I'll ever meet, our firies'

Like Quirky mentioned above you are always welcome to provide your support/care anywhere you feel comfortable doing so! I hope you have a really good week!

my kind thoughts

Paul

I find triggers about bushfire can take me by surprise . I can be ok

but I see something or hear something and then it can overwhelm me.

Is anyone suffering from the trauma of the bushfires.

From my experience triggers can be quite random & unpredictable. Your response of being ok & then overwhelmed mirrors mine. I find it helpful to know I'm not alone. I felt scared to let anyone know how I felt because I thought they would think I was crazy reacting like I did. Knowing you are experiencing similar things to me helps me feel more 'normal'

Elizabeth

I read somewhere ages ago that normal is a setting in a washing machine.
you have been through a lot in your life and this year that any reaction that helps you cope is useful.

I think we are both aware of our reactions and we need to accept it and be kind to ourselves.
It is reassuring when someone else reacts in the same way. Ia know things are hard for but I am glad you can write about it.

Quirky

Hi Quirky

Lets hope that all states are doing everything possible with back burning and preparedness prior to the upcoming warmer weather!

Im not sure what the govt department is called in NSW Quirky? In Victoria the department is the DSE (Department of Sustainability and Environment) I hope they are better prepared than they were in Jan 2020

my kind thoughts

Paul