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Dear Cala, love to lovely Grandy and Pepper,
I am so sorry you had such an awfully stressful day the other day. I really hope that you have been able to be very gentle with yourself since then, and give yourself time and space to recover. What a horrible day.
I know that feeling, over estimating what we can achieve in a day and having to race from one thing to another, getting more and more stressed. Then when you come home all you want to do is cry and curl up in bed.
Please give yourself permission to have some calming recovery days if you can.
With the speeding tickets, if you have a good driving record (e.g. no infringements in the last 10 years), once the fine arrives, you can apply to have it waived and just given a warning. I have done this before, you just write a letter and they will say yes or no. I had an absolute whopper of a fine recently, and they let me off. It's worth a try?
Grandy, thank you so much for Huggly Huggle Hugs! It's just so Huggly I can't believe it. It's lovely and thank you for sharing Huggly huggle hugs with us all, you have such a beautiful, gentle heart.
Wishing a sense of peace to you all this afternoon, and sending love.
Go gently with yourselves.
Love,
🌻birdy
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Birdy you are sooo lovely too 🤗🤗🤗🤗😘😘😘😘 thank you so much for your post.
I haven’t forgotten you, please don’t think that. I hope you are ok.
the beginning of this stressful, anxious time was over nothing much at all really but it seems to have set off a chain reaction - today has been difficult, again over nothing.
I had a rest and slept a little, that helped, but I did feel so bad earlier
I’m really not up to more than this at the moment. I know you and Grandy and Pepper and All understands this.
love 😍 and hugs 🤗 everyone Cala
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Dear Cala,
We totally get it ... there is no pressure to say anything more.
Just look after you, treat yourself with complete gentleness ... in fact, imagine us there, and how we would care for you, and do what we would do. Make nice cups of tea, light a nice candle, tuck yourself in with warm blankies, and don't forget Grandy's Huggly huggle hugs.
Give yourself some compassion tonight after another stressful day.
You need it to recharge.
❤
🌻birdy
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Hello Cala,
Ive just popped in to say that it's okay sweetheart, please don't worry or stress about posting..
Cala, please look after yourself the best you can .Im sorry that your struggling so very badly, yes honey sometimes it's the most insignificant and small things that can bring us down.
Maybe while your laying in bed, how about a really peaceful instrumental, and really listen to it..li love Leo Rojas and the spirit of the hawk...It's sooooo beautiful and peaceful...he is an American Indian and plays the pan flute brilliantly..
Ohhhh, by the way Cala I want you to know your a very special, beautiful person...🤗💜❤️👩❤️💋👩🕊..
Love and Huggly hugs 💜&🤗..with lots of peace🕊..
Your in my thoughts,
Grandy..
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Hi lovely Cala, Grandy and birdy
Don’t worry, Cala, we get it ❤️Sometimes things get overwhelming and we aren’t up for saying much, which is definitely okay.
I agree with birdy and Grandy about being extra gentle and kind with yourself...
Sending my love and many warm hugs,
Pepper xoxo
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Hi Birdy Grandy Pepper and all
I just want to let you know that I’m ok, shuffling along.
I also want to say that I’m taking a break from B.B. for a while
So while I’m away I’ll be thinking of you all and sending lots of love ❤️and lots of hugs 🤗
Cala ⭕️❌
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Dear Cala,
I was just about to check on you and your post popped up. You were in my thoughts.
I hope you take good care of yourself, and that you are ok.
I look forward to hearing from you when you feel up to it.
Thinking of you.
Go gently with yourself.
Love,
🌻birdy
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Hello Cala,
Im just calling in to say hello, and let you know I'm thinking about you...also I just wanted to remind you that you are a really worthwhile, lovely, caring compassionate, loving and beautiful person with a very gentle soul...
Im sending you everlasting hugs, cuddles, and care...
Grandy...💜💜🤗🤗🤗🤗..and a lucky bamboo tree...🎍..
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Hi Grandy, Birdy, Pepper and all
I’m not really back on the forum. I just want to say I’m thinking of you all and send lots of love.
I am especially concerned for you Birdy because of the dreadful fires on the south coast, Please be safe and well. My heart goes out to all who are having to deal with the absolutely awful fire situation wherever they are
live to you all, Cala ❤️❌⭕️🤗😘
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Hello Cala,
Its such a really great pleasant surprise to hear from you....Thank you for thinking of us and sending your love 🤗💜🤗..
Please be okay lovely Cala...it's hard when people leave here and we stop hearing from the, because we learn to start loving and caring for each other,, but it's extra special when we do hear back.. so thank you from deep in my heart for letting us know that you are okay....
Sending to you my friend..⭕️❌⭕️❌❌⭕️⭕️❌❌⭕️❌⭕️❌..lots of cuddles and kisses.....💜💜🤗🤗🕊🕊🌹.
Grandy...xxx🕊🕊.