My BF and I are going stronger than ever now, given his ex decided to go against her own rules regarding the kids and partners. In short really she is a controlling, manipulative, emotionally/psychologically and financially abusive harpy. He has told her to stick her rules, has consulted a lawyer and it is full steam ahead for finalising the divorce and financial settlement. I have also met his youngest daughter officially as his girlfriend.
After ten years of the exes games, and her trying to scare me off for two years, (ie her gravy train was at risk!), it backfired. She is now scared and has escalated her use of the children to control and manipulate him. But it is no longer working as legally she has no reason to do this. She sunk very low very fast.
He has stood up to her and the big bad bully is crumbling. People who are scared make mistakes and boy howdy she is making mistakes! She will be more than fairly compensated through settlement though.
I have been very overwhelmed by it all but I am ok. Justice hopefully will happen. I am being strong for him, and his mother.
I have a huge issue with situations like these as i have seen people die because of them. I saw it two years ago in him what she had done. I also am now hearing from his friends and himself the games she has pulled.
Lets hope justice is served.
**phew**
