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Trying to avoid going back to hospital

crackers14
Community Member

hi  i have depression and its not being treated at the moment and i feel like if it doesnt get treated soon ill go back to the hospitial which i dont wanbt to do .

any advice is helpful 

 

crackers14au

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hi well today i saw my psychologist and he suggested that i stay relaxed and listen to the tape and see my dr and keep on taking the pharmacy medication which is for stress i hate large crowds and i hate people calling me schizo and other hurtful names .

so I will see how i go but its really helping me to have people to talk to 

carolyn 

and the reason its crackers is because the board wouldnt let me post otherwise

 

dear Crackers, thanks for getting back to us, and you're not the only one who hates large crowds, because I do.

How do you think you are going with the psychologist, or does he have any better advice than to keep seeing your doctor, because the doctor is only going to push you back to the psychologist and/or the psychiatrist.

Do you feel as though all they are doing is pushing you around in circles, just curious. Geoff.

Dear Carolyn

Great to talk to you again. I am really bemused with your psychologist and doctor. It seems to me that if your doc is not going to take charge of your treatment you need another doc.

The role of the GP is to co-ordinate a patient's treatment and make sure it is producing positive results.They also give their own treatment where they have the skills. Now it's not unusual for a doc to leave all the counselling to a psych if the doc feels it is not their area of expertise. What they are responsible for is to refer you to a competent practitioner and follow up on outcomes. And that means they should be aware of the strengths of any psych in their area.

Now you go to a psychiatrist and psychologist for two different illnesses. Do either or both report to the doc? They should be making annual reports at the very least, preferably more often, so that the doc knows what is going on. You should also be given a copy of these reports.

I know from experience that the GP will often say they cannot do this because it is not their report to give. This is not correct. Federal law says any patient can see any information about themselves in the doctor's file providing it does not refer to another patient, in which case that info must erased first, or seeing the report may be dangerous for the patient. Relatively few reports come into this category. When my doctor refused to show me something she had received from the psychiatrist I pointed out the provisions of the Privacy Act and she immediately handed over a copy.

It seems to me from your posts that your GP is very "relaxed" about his/her duties and you may be better off with another doc. If all the psychologist is doing is to tell you to stay relaxed, listen to the tape and your doc, he does not appear to be doing much for his money.

Look, you seem reluctant to disclose your various diagnoses, and you have every right to keep them private. The reason for my comment is that someone, probably many some-ones, will have the same or similar difficulty as you and can offer a specific form of support.  But as I said, it is entirely up to you. I am not being nosey.

I am interested in what other assistance your psychologist is offering you. Also what the psych thinks your doc is offering. I keep coming back to the need for these people to work together and get their communication act together. It seems you are being shuffled around with no positives outcomes.

Please do not be offended by my rant.

Mary

 

hi mary

I see my gp on the 23rd april and have a record that comes out just incase there is a problem so ill take the stress med from the chemist and listen to my relaxation tape and see my doctor about it i dont like being on too many meds because i get confused but the psychologist is wonderful

Dear Carolyn

Good to hear from you.  Sorry for not responding earlier. I must keep missing your posts. Am I to understand that you get uptight or stressed when you see your GP? This is not good and would explain a great deal. I think I have commented in an earlier post that if you are uncomfortable with your doc, then find another one.

Yes, I have to agree with you about medication. Too many pills and it feels as though you rattle when you walk. And that's without any potential side effects. You may not need meds, but if the GP suggests it, have the discussion about the intended effect and potential side effects and also about your concerns.

Sometimes when I see a doctor of any sort I realise I have forgotten to ask something or tell them something. So I write down all my symptoms and questions beforehand. It's a list with a couple of words to remind me of what I want to say. Doing this may help your nervousness.

It's good you are happy with your psychologist. Being able to trust this person really is vital to having a good relationship and to your own therapy.

I look forward to hearing from you again.

Mary

 

Dr_turtle
Community Member

G'day just a bit of a thanks first to the organisers and all involved in BB .only just made the step out into depresion recovery in last few days .after living in it for 40 years ,a case of shut up and don't let anyone know .the effects of that deeply ingrained mentality has had disarsterous effects for me over the years and some of the consiquenses I'll have to live with for much longer .

i wet into complete melt down recently and out of it asked for help at last and received two short DVDs put out by BB .within minutes I was identifying with the people's experiences all the way through .cant explain what a relief that was after so many years .just saved a life .am looking forward to workin through it all and finally having a quality of life worth living.thanks.

Dear Dr Turtle

Welcome to Beyond Blue. It's good that you have found your way here and also found something helpful.

If you would like to continue posting about your situation, could you start a separate thread please. The responses to you and your comments in return will get mixed up with Carolyn's posts and make both sets difficult to follow.

Just go into the Depression forum and click on New Thread at the right hand side at the top of the page. Then follow the prompts. I look forward to talking with you.

Regards

Mary