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Chris D
Community Member
I need to talk to someone. I need encouragement. Please help me.
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Chris D
Community Member
Try to help & look out for people & treated & spoken like a piece of dirt dont know why i bother. Get doors slammed shut in my face. Cant sleep bcause of how people hav spoken to me when i just try to look out for them. Feel alone not going to say anything anymore. One of those people that made me feel this way is on this forum so this will b my last post cause not going to put up with it anymore. I hope ur hapoy with urself u sure know how to upset people when there just trying to help the bedt way they know how.
Goodbye
chris

Jo3
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member

Hi Chris,

I just read your post.  Please, Please stay on here.  We are your friends and want to help you.  I care about you and hope that you can stay on here.  It is horrible when people say things or do things that upset you.  You don't deserve this, you are a caring and genuine guy.

Whatever that person on this forum said to upset you - sometimes people say things without realising what they're saying.  I know my hubby does it to me at times!!!

Chris, you have been a HUGE rock for me.  You have written some of the most amazing replies to me and others and your very inspirational.  You, Chris are strong, you are a beautiful person.  I can tell you are genuine and really want to help yourself as well as others. 

Yesterday when i was under a big black cloud you wrote to me and gave me inspiration to get up and stand tall and fight.  And I did thanks to you.

I will treasure that reply you wrote to me yesterday and the other day as well.  I have printed it out and read it every day.  I am hoping that you still stay on here and we can help each other

 Your friend

Jo

Mares73
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member

Hi Chris I just wanted to say I agree with Jo's comments. You write beautiful replies to others going through a hard time and we also feel we are a part of your journey. So many people would miss you if you didn't stay on the forum. Look at Jo-she prints your replies as they give her inspiration-that's pretty special to have that connection and understanding. Something has obviously upset you-can you talk about it without mentioning names? That might help to let out your feelings and get our support in listening or advising on the ways in which the message upset you. Please don't give up a whole friendship and support group who think highly of you just because of one persons comments. They aren't worth it. You have so much support on here so please come back and let us know how you are and update us as soon as you can. Mares x