It must appear I'm being lazy but it's just too much effort

MrsCam
Community Member
hubby & I are supposed to be going out socially this evening but I just dont feel like it... I manage to put on a happy face at work through the week but tonite it just feels like too much effort... I think hubby might b annoyed with me... I have not tried to stop him from going at all, in fact I have encouraged him to go which im pretty sure he will but I still feel like Im letting him down... I did no study or housework today even though I was supposed to do both... I know it appears to him that I am just being lazy but at the moment it is all just too much effort... I only got dressed today cos I wanted junk food so I needed to go to the shop, otherwise I wouldve stayed in my pjs all day... even now i am in my bed with my laptop even tho it is only 6:30pm... I know I probably should make the effort.....
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Mares73
Blue Voices Member
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Dear Mrs C I just wanted to drop in & say you are doing REALLY WELL given the terrible symptoms of depression. You should be proud. As Neil said you have fitted right in & I hope this forum is a great support for you. I completely relate to feeling like you can't even get dressed. Some days are really tough. But I hope we can support you as we all know the darkness of depression. And Neil & Geoffrey are the two "gurus" in my mind on this site! Hope your day goes ok? Love Mares

Neil_1
Community Member

Dear Mrs C

Way to go – that’s all awesome words that your last post contained.

Um, may I be so bold as to where you work – as in, wasn’t yesterday a public holiday?   So you work in hospitality or something?  Not wishing to be pushy at all – just nosey.  😉  😉

And being bold again – whatcha studying??  

And how long have you go to go with it?

Neil

ps:  no obligation to answer any of the above.  I hope I didn't overstep the mark and yeah.  Tha'ts all.  🙂

 

MrsCam
Community Member
Thats ok Neil, ask away :)

Wasnt a public holiday in WA, we had that last week.

I work in childcare. There is only one centre in our little mining town so it gets pretty busy... I am currently studying my diploma in childrens services. I did my certificate years ago but then I dropped out of second year so never completed the diploma. I have decided now to commit to doing that as I think it will give me a real sense of achievement. I dont even know if I will use it to work as a group leader but I want to have it just the same...

I had to upgrade my certificate as it has been over 15 years since I did that sothat is done and I also presented evidence to get RPL for 2 units so that leaves 16 to go. I am almost finished the first 2 which hopefully will be done by the end of this week. I had hoped to finish the whole course by xmas but I am not going to pressure myself too much so I have given myself till mid 2015...

Hope eveyone is having a good day... I am witing an assignment about fostering positive self esteem in young children... I could go on forever!!!!

MrsCam
Community Member
Thanks Mares :)

Hope you are having a good day

Neil_1
Community Member

Hey there Mrs C

Isn’t that unusual that WA had the week before to have the long weekend for the Queen’s birthday – and that means that WA were closer to the mark anyway, as I heard a trivia quiz over the weekend that mentioned that her real birthday is sometime in April.  Possibly not the 1st though!!   LOL   (I don’t know why I wrote that, cause I never hardly ever use that).  But I do like LMAO – or if I had to write it out in full here, it would be:  Laughing My Backside Off !!

That’s awesome that you’re going for the next step in childcare and upgrading your quals.  I too have a certificate in Centre-Based Child Care – I did that for a year in 1997, just after a ended a 12 year stint in the Public Service and thought I might try a change. 

I completed the year successfully, but only to realise that the only kids I really wanted to take care of were my own.   So my partner and I then began baby-making (one in 1998 and the other 2000 – actually when the Olympics in Sydney were on).  Still I learnt a fair lot in that year – but sadly, I’m not sure how we’re travelling now with our 16yo son.  The road is quite bumpy at times.

Isn’t it also amazing that child care worker’s pay is so low and miserable – when you consider what they do each and every day – looking after the children – making a safe, loving environment for them – nurturing them and supporting, etc – I could go on – and yet the child care worker’s pay is a pittance.  It just doesn’t gel in my opinion.

Just before I finish this post, I’ll say that the plan that you’ve got mapped out is a very good one.  No huge expectations to finish too soon – and as you say, by doing this, you won’t be creating any unnecessary pressure on yourself.  Just go along and get it done in your own time at your own pace – very good philosophy Mrs C.

Great to hear from you again,

Neil