I feel like I don't fit in anywhere

[Double_K]

Hi everyone,

im new to this so I'm a little wary about it all.

ive been feeling down lately and I feel like I don't fit in anywhere

[demonblaster]

Hi k welcome

Understandable being wary, heres a very well moderated & run site, you're quite safe here, good people doin it hard, supporting & understand pain

Up to you if you wanna talk more bout whats pulling you down otherwise you may like to peruse the threads

This is your space now to talk if you want

Listening

Tc ☺

[Double_K]

Hi,

its I'm always been criticised for no reason. I offered to help a fellow co-worker and this other co-worker said strait out...."why are you doing this?" I mean, I'm being helpful and supportive of a fellow friend and co-worker. It's like she was jealous of me cause she didn't get in first or something. She's just being so petty.

[demonblaster]

Yeah its a kick in the guts when you're tryin to help someone & get that response

Whats the agro one usually like towards you? Pleasant, cold, false, do they talk to you?

Or do they have a problem with the co worker i wonder

Nasty to carry on like that either way & yeah could be jealousy too

Sounds like its them with the problem, have you had any moments with the agro one.

Are they in power as in a boss?

Do you have others giving you grief too, no judge just tryin to understand how it is for you

Doesnt make ya feel any good aye but if you're doin the right thing it's their problem not that in my book it makes it easier or ok, what about talking to agro & asking why they had an issue do ya think they'd respond ok

Lot ?'s soz ☺

[Double_K]

I'm always curtious to this person and she is a duty supervisor where I work.

Its like she never thinks before she speaks. I'm not the only one who is starting to dislike this person.

Live looked at some of the other alternatives that is on this site like meditation etc and I've tried it. It's starting to help, but I will continue to chat on here too

[demonblaster]

Good for you checking out other info, theres a lot of good stuff here, so much to learn, so many people all with different experiences.

Yeah have heard & had few goes at meditation most people find it helps, good on you, resting the mind & getting control gotta be good aye, takes practice & focus & in mania with BP (bipolar ive even succeeded & the minds all over the shop those times & ive made up ones just whatever would relax me like one time i imagined a body massage worked section by section

Ive moved around a lot in Oz & worked quite a few places, many unfortunately in power don't handle it well, not too smart really cause you get more out of people treating them with respect

Good others having issues too, would help rest your mind that its them not you

Tc ☺

If im afk i'll eventually return

[Double_K]

I know I'm new and all and the 3 people who replied thank u, and my meditation is helping a bit, but I still feel down and another reason is cause I'm worried bout a close friend. I want to help her so much, but she just won't let me in, won't open up. What can I do?

[Double_K]

I'm not having a good day or week at the moment.

I don't fit in, I don't belong and I just always feel left out.

😢😢😢

[Doolhof]

Hi Double K,

Welcome to the community here! It can be tough when you feel like you don't fit in with some people.

As a child, I didn't seem to fit in with the girls at school, so I mainly hung out with the guys and learnt how to play cricket and kick the footy. The guys were far less complicated...until we all became teenagers, then the whole situation changed again.

I'm a lot older now, maybe not a whole lot wiser, but I have learnt that no matter how hard I want someone to like me, if they don't want to like me then that is it, they don't.

Most times I try to not let it bother me. Funny thing is, when I don't try so hard to get the other person's approval, and just try to be myself and please myself with my actions, the other person may respond better.

Sorry to read you are having such a miserable week. One thing that helps me is to think about something I can be thankful for at the end of each day. It might be as simple as having enjoyed my lunch, listening to a bird chirping, or a smile from a stranger.

You are more than welcome in this caring community and you don't need to feel left out here. There are many different places to visit on the forum when you feel comfortable to do so.

Cheers to you from Mrs. Dools

[demonblaster]

Hi K & all haven't deserted you 😊

Gotta sleep bbl