I just wanted to say that when I was using that site and saying the mean things on it, I wasn't deliberately trying to bully these people back - I was trying to use irony. What I mean by that is, for example, if you see someone calling someone else ugly and you don't agree with that person calling them that, if you want to use irony to get back at the bully, you could say something like "Oh yeah, we are just so much better than ugly people because that person you're bullying is just so ugly and we are just so good looking that we have the right to call them that." So you're basically trying to make the bully see how nasty and stupid they sound when they call that person ugly, if that makes sense? It's really hard to explain. It's like satire except, it's not suppose to be offensive, it's just trying to get people to realize how mean they are being.
People feel the need to point out flaws that I have that I already know about because they seem to think that if I don't say anything about them, that I don't know about it. But I'm worried that if I do say something about my flaws that they will notice them more. I have really bad facial skin (it makes me look old in a way) and I started thinking that maybe it made me look like a grandma, but I didn't say anything about because I thought that if I didn't say anything that maybe people wouldn't notice, but a while later, someone from school said that I look like a grandma so they obviously do notice even if I don't say anything.
The only thing that I didn't notice that other people do is that I have "no eyebrows" (I have eyebrows, but they are apparently hard to see). I knew my eyebrows weren't the best, but I didn't know people couldn't even see them.
I try not to go as low as to bully people about their appearance even when they are being really mean to me and bullying me about mine. It's a weird thing to bully people about, especially since these people and I are all 24 - 40 years old. (Some people who are in their 40's bully me). I feel like once you're in your mid 20's, it's really time to try to grow up a bit.
