Hi and welcome Jay;
Quick story for you ok;
On a girls night out at a city night club, my very beautiful friend complained no-one was asking her to dance. Me; very plain Jane, was dancing up a storm having a ball.
Confused about this she asked what I had that she didn't. I said; "I say yes with a smile unlike you who turns her nose up at each person and says no". When she fobbed this off, I bet her a weeks wage I could get any man she chose to ask me to dance before her without uttering a word.
She jumped at the chance and picked a very handsome man just entering the room. I set my eyes on him, smiled and danced around in my chair. He came straight to our table, bent down and asked me to join him on the dance floor.
He and I had a wonderful night and dated a few times before he had to leave the city.
The moral to this story is, on average, men and women alike appreciate confidence, a fun loving attitude and caring more than looks. A well timed smile can melt a woman's heart and as you probably know, makes a man feel like a hero if it's genuine.
Choose flattering clothes, a good haircut, hold yourself up straight and relaxed with shoulders back will give an impression of confidence and self respect. Add a smile or a cheeky grin to this and you're attracting attention...the good kind; even men will envy you.
The old adage; 'fake it till you make it' holds true in this respect Jay. People respond to confidence more than anything else. How you present yourself is less about looks than you might think. So next time you're out, show the world you've got something special to offer. Look women in the eyes and smile; that's all it takes.
Test it out on your psych too. See how she responds to this new you. You might just be surprised.
I wish you luck in your endeavours my friend. Hope to hear from you soon...
Sez
