lonley

shan_shan
Community Member
I just feel very lonely these days I try to hang with people but they just ignore me and pretend I'm not there I try to speak but get told to shut up your opinion isn't valued I have any friends and I get bullied every single I get called fat, ugly, stupid and dumb I love helping people but I have no one to help am friendly but no one wants to be friends with me ever since yr 8 I've been struggling and just recently it has gotten really bad to witch now I have depression, server anxiety, I take medication for that and I see a counsellor and have been thinking negative thoughts about myself I really and truly don't wanna be lonely anymore I just want someone, anyone, to talk to me and help me achieve what u wanna achieve
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startingnew
Community Member

hello Shan Shan and welcome to BB

im sorry to hear about what your going through. No one deserves to be bullied on any level, i can definetly understand how you are feeling, i too was bullied badly resulting in physical violence and still now i have people bullying me. it is the person doing the bullyings problem, they often need to hurt others to feel good about themselves which is such a shame really.

i can tell you, your opinion matters here so you can talk about what you like and express yourself and none of us here are going to tell you to be quiet, so please dont be afraid to talk to us here.

im glad to hear you have a counsellor- are you finding them helpful at all? can i ask if your through headspace- theres a reason behind why i ask thats all.

do you have family supports that you can talk to as well?

In regards to having other friends, do you have any hobbies or sports you like that you could join a club/group to make some new friends?

Kidshelpline, Headspace and Reachout have information as well as here that might be of use to you. they also offer counselling services online and through phone call (except reachout but they have info on the site) if your in need of supports at any time, so your welcome to utilse those as well as here too.

quirkywords
Community Champion
Community Champion

Shan Shan,

Welcome to the forum.

No wonder you feel lonely, when you are bullied, no one listens to you and you are called names.

Do you think the counsellor us helping you with your negative Houghts,

The trouble is when people bully us or call you names or put you down, we tend to believe what others say to us and then repeat these negative thoughts.

I wonder what ideas you have of how to feel better about youself. I can see the bullying has made you feel down Is there any teacher you can tell at school about the bullying.

We are listening to you and you can post to us as much as you want.

You are a good person who wants to help others,. I know it is hard to have confidence in yourself when you feel so lonely. Starting New has made a good suggestion about finding other students that have a similar interest to you.

You have made a start in reeling us about how you feel. There will be reading this who will relate to what you wrote.

Quirky

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