Hi Gabby
I had a similar experience. I had some 6 girls that I was very interested in, and all of them were very different. So I decided not to rush things. I was very careful just to enjoy their attention, get to know each of them and take things slowly, in the physical side of things in particular. It became very difficult after about 3-4 months of regular dating, but eventually I was able to slowly whittle down the options to the last 2. Unfortunately I now feel very attached and close to both. One had just come out of a failed relationship, and a small child, and mother living with her. The other is single, and while she lives with her parents, is able to be independent. I feel that until I am totally sure of who to take up with, I will continue to date both and chat online, until it becomes clearer. I tend to listen to the inner voice, the gut reaction, and how my mind works when I am not in the company of either girl.
Hope these comments help. Just dont rush it. It is not worth rushing into something only to find you have made a mistake.
Cheers
Peter
