Hi I am in a precarious situation now, and feel quite vulnerable ,I am a 73 yr old male and have a partner who is an alcoholic and narcissistic. She doesn't like domestic chores or doing any thing around the home, we look after my Nephew who has an acquired brain injury.he is easily influenced . last week my partner and I had an argument,over a very small thing ,it got out of hand ,she was yelling at the top of her voice. I was trying to reason with her ,to no avail!!.
my nephew heard the commotion and can to see what was happening ,she immediately said that i was angry and abusive,and when with him into the laundry and shut the door ,I wanted to let him know that this was not true so forced open the door ,she let out a scream and said that this was abuse and she should call the police . My nephew being brain damaged her her and immediately called the police,he told them that his uncle was being abusive towards his partner . the following day the police can and interviewed all concerned .fortunately they decided that is was not serious enough to arrest me and charge me ,but reserved the right to place and incident report on file so that if ever there was another incident then I would be charged.and bought before a magistrate .
I am not a violent person never have been ,I do have a curt tongue, that can deliver a scathing message .
my problem now is that with the report on file ,if she feels that she wants to be vindictive towards me for what ever reason all she has to do is call the police. My nephew is very distraught about the whole incident,he is now worried like myself that she will use it against me .
to be honest The relationship is at and end.but if I ask her to leave she will create a scene and the end result is what I am afraid off.
