So Lost

[Lost19751]

Honestly dont know what to say. Married with kids and well feel totally lost. Covid killed my relationship. I had to work through , mrs had to stay home looking after kids. Think she feels i didnt carry my weight although i was gone most of the time due to work.

She hasnt forgiven me for not being there. Ive tried to kickstart the relationship again although nothing. There little to no hugs, kissess, support etc and i just feel past my used by date. Suggested counceling although shes not interested.

I see couples holding hands, kissing etc and it breaks my heart. Days are getting longer, harder. Some days i wish i just didnt wake up and I could sleep for longer. Im exhauated, tired, lost. I have no direction and feel confused.

Nfi what i can do and feel like i just want to give up. Bahhhhh ;(

[Sophie_M]

Hey  Lost19751,

We can hear you’re feeling lost and isolated in your relationship. The pandemic was a really difficult time for a lot of couples and we’re so sorry you’re feeling this way. We want you to know that by posting here, and sharing your story with our community, you’ve already taken an enormous step and shown such bravery and strength.  

If you did want to reach out to Relationships Australia, you can call them on 1300 364 277. They also have some great advice on their pages, such as this one on communication in relationships. 

It sounds like you could really do with talking things through, so please don’t hesitate to give the lovely Beyond Blue counsellors a call on 1300 22 4636 or speak to them on webchat here. There are also some really good pointers here for staying connected, and finding support through a trying time.  

Thanks again for sharing here. We hope our lovely community will soon spot your post and provide some words of comfort during this difficult time. 

Kind regards,  

Sophie M