It is difficult sharing children with an ex when you are not on the greatest of terms, as the hurt can turn to an ugly bitterness, that comes out in everything they do. My ex will not take our son to doctors or support appointments or drive him to any activities, despite being presently being unemployed. Sometimes I think he refuses to do regular parent stuff just as a micro-aggression against me, but it is probably just laziness. When my son was ill and I had to take him for a covid test he was really anxious about it, especially given his sensory issues that come with autism, but did really well (there was some gasping and sneezing), and was given the all clear. I hope your daughter is okay.
