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Hi Holi
Thank you for sharing your very moving story. I am sorry that your son is so unwell. My daughter was in the same position 7 years ago, so I understand what you are going through.
She was 13 when OCD consumed her life. She could not leave the house or attend school for months. She had no friends, no sport, no life. I really didn't know what would become of her.
Fast forward to today and she is studying architecture at university. She has a wonderful boyfriend and a wide circle of friends. She has travelled independently through Europe. She works part time as a waitress.
This change didn't happen by accident. In between diagnosis and now there was a lot of hard work for her and I. Medication, CBT and lifestyle changes were required. We used a wide range of services over the years including, public hospital, private clinic (one of the world's leading OCD clinics is in Australia), private psychiatrist and psychologist, pediatrician and mental health nurses.
I don't know anything about the NDIS, sorry. Someone else may come along with more information or you could call the beyondblue support service on 1300 22 4636. This service is fantastic and they can tell you about different types of service providers in your local area too.
I really just wanted to connect to let you know that there is hope for your son to have a fuller life. Hang in there, my friend.
I will keep you and your son in my thoughts and prayers
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There is most definitely hope out there for a full an active life.
I personally had a large episode of crippling OCD that hit me in adulthood. It did take a lot of work with a psychologist (CBT Therapy) and some medication but now I am able to face my fears and distinguish between what is OCD and what isn't. There will be flareups, but with the correct treatment you are well equipped to handle them.
As for the financial side of things I was able to go on a mental health plan, which allows a certain amount of psychology visits to be mostly covered by medicare (If I recall correctly I was about $50 out of pocket per visit but this was 5 years ago).
I would consult your local GP about potentially going on one.
Good luck with it all and I hope for the best. It can be a scary road but there is light at the end of the tunnel.
*p.s these are just my experiences so anyone may be able to chime in and correct me.
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