This first one is nothing much really l have far far bigger things l still carry guilt over , but it's and example of the typical side of most people l find, verses those of us that have way too much empathy for our own good.
l said to one of my sisters one day , yeah , l know, and l've felt guilty about that for yrs, She said what ? You've felt guilty about that , why in hell have you felt guilty , God how Christian- not sure what that meant l'm not even Christian. Point is though that my guilt also involved her , and yet all these yrs whatever it was had never even crossed her mind. - I find that's pretty typical.
That same sister actually , about 10 yrs earlier, this was big , very, was suppose to go into this property deal with me and my ex. My ex and l were flat broke at the time - this sister is worth millions. Well , ex and l rounded up a few 1000$ , we scrimped and scratched so hard to find that money , and we used it for costs in doing our share on this property thing, and it was every last thing, cent, everything , we had. We didn't even have it, we had to sell some of the few things we did have , to raise it.
Then we did 3mths work on the deal, and putting all that money into it. Well, that sister called one night , after all that and just said oh btw, l've changed my mind and l won't be doing that property. And that was it, she then just casually went on to ask how my daughter was made some small chat and hung up. Never ever apologized, never reimbursed us of the money and work we'd put into it for 3mths, never thanked us , never mentioned it ever again.
Like nothing had even happened.
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