The warmest of welcomes to you at what sounds like such an unbearable time, in so many different ways. While some people make living life look easy, for others it's more so a matter of 'How do I live under these conditions?'.
There can be so many different conditions that can make it feel impossible to live life easily, without degrees of sufferance
- How we were raised, with either a lot of life skills and support or little to no skills and support, can determine how easy or hard life can be. Life can demand an enormous amount of skills or tools to manage
- How our brain ticks or what it struggles with (whether it struggles with some degree of ADHD or autism, for example) can be another factor
- Not having enough of the supports and guides we really need in life, in order to manage the stressful, depressing and unbearable challenges we face, can be another factor. Feeling lost and alone in the dark can be a truly brutal experience
- Mentally, the false belief systems we have about ourself and life, the inner dialogue we struggle with and the depressing perception that just refuses to shift can make life feel like a hell on earth experience at times
- Being an intensely feeling person can also come with so many challenges, a massive amount at times. Finding other sensitive people, with the ability to sense so much, can make a great difference at times. For a start, this can mean we have others sensing our challenges with us
and the list goes on. 'I can't leave but at the same time I don't know how to manage staying' in itself can create a sense of torture. Limbo or 'in-between' can be one of the toughest places to be in life. There are times in my life where I've been left of wonder 'Am I experiencing a kind of hell on earth or am I in limbo?', as the 2 can feel so similar at times. As a 54yo gal, I've finally reached the conclusion that no matter where I am there's no choice but to graduate through the challenges. How to manage doing that becomes the ultimate challenge. I've found the first key question to unlocking the way ahead is 'Can I do this by myself or do I need guides to show me the way or help light the way ahead?'. I have a variety of guides in my life, including some of those on the forums here.
Whether the guides relate to what impacts us physically (chemistry included), what impacts us mentally or what can feel soulful or soul destroying, I've found only the best of guides makes a difference. Anything less than that leads me to feel little to no difference. No difference just leaves us where we are, in an unbearable state of being, lost and alone in the dark with no sense of the way forward. ❤️
