Vent and then let it go...

[Guest_1055]

Not sure about anyone else but sometimes I just need to vent, including venting any frustrations, fears, hopes, worries, longings and anything else. Most of the time I don't want any advice or any responses. Just need a way to get it all out from within me.

So thought this thread could be for those sort of things. No one replys to you with words or anything. It's a place to let it all go. Just dump whatever it is you want to say and leave it here.

So yeah no replys please.

[ecomama]

I'm sick of ppl in my life speaking to me like I'm 2yo.

They behave like I know nothing about handling my own life and issues when I've proven again and again that I do.
Especially when I don't ask for their advice.

Not an unwelcome tirade about how when they had a 1% as big an issue almost similar then they did abc, they forget what I HAVE achieved in that area, so like how's THAT helpful?
It's not.

If I DO ask for advice then that's fine, I'm happy to get feedback then.

It's not like my degrees fell out of a cereal box.
It's not like my house magically appeared like a wish I made with Aladdin's lamp.
It's not like the lantana growing in every space in my garden just disappeared via same lamp lol.
But THAT'S how I'm spoken to.

I also cannot stand the delusional overblown entitlement of some of my "friends" who think I'm just here waiting to be their servants... labour for them (lol nope), provide ALL sorts and the worst ones in the past 12 months have been 2 people just ASSUMING they can move in with me!
Insisting they move in to MY home with MY children.

What? These 2 ppl weren't anywhere to be seen for all those years the kids and I went thru Courts.
I guess they were waiting to see if I got my HOUSE.
Then hey presto appearing like hungry ants at a picnic.

Less of those ppl, more QUALITY in my life.

Oh and today I got yelled at by an intoxicated woman whilst loading my shopping into my car.
I just ignored her, by gosh I thought about her and how crazy that is all the way home.

What a nightmare some ppl are.

[Guest_1584]

A couple friends of ours and us , back when there was an us , use to have this little joke nothing much but it just use to sound hilarious the way he'd always say it and we'd all crack up. What will become of me !

But it's not so funny anymore and l'm asking it to myself of late way too often , and l ain't joking either. rx

[IreneM]

You're certainly not alone. Loneliness certainly applies to many of us.

I have my times as an introvert when I am content on my own, but I also have my times when I just need to feel understood and cared about. When that happens I just call or contact my best friend (but I know too, that not many people even have one friend that they can call upon.

I go to see people when I get the chance to. Keeps me going, because friendship is what you put into the relationship, not what you receive from it.

[Guest_1055]

Ah Irene Thankyou

[Guest_1643]

feeling down about my health

physically not fit or motivated

don't eat healthily or often at all

feeling this after eating a heathy meal, which was expensive, and time consuming to prepare, and can see how hard it is to stay well and eat well on a limited budget and with limited energy

[Guest_1584]

Yep l hear ya sleepy.

Bloody food never ends , wish there was a pill.

[Gambit87]

Just what I needed!

I get frustrated at my partner for not taking enough care with things like keys/phones/wallets.

she looses them in the house and cant find them.

[Guest_1643]

feeling really down today with body image. frustrated. living in a very narcissisic culture these days... it's a lot.
struggling and feeling only at the beginning of the journey today

some optimism but some pain.

[Guest_1643]

black mold has attacked my art therapy papers!! why!!

So gross and toxic. Gross. Just trying not to think about it. Had to take photos of the stuff to send to the agent to approve removal.

Now time to chuck it out. Disgusted.

[CMF]

Am I enough for anyone, anything?

Am I enough for my partner, my kids, my work?

Am I enough?