Vent and then let it go...

Guest_1055
Community Member

Not sure about anyone else but sometimes I just need to vent, including venting any frustrations, fears, hopes, worries, longings and anything else. Most of the time I don't want any advice or any responses. Just need a way to get it all out from within me.

So thought this thread could be for those sort of things. No one replys to you with words or anything. It's a place to let it all go. Just dump whatever it is you want to say and leave it here.

So yeah no replys please.

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Ggrand
Community Champion

Hi CMF.....

Yes you are enough lovely CMF...

Please don’t let anyone including yourself tell you any differently....

Guest_1643
Blue Voices Member

my friend really hurt me and i don't know what to do with the hurt

she made me feel really embarrassed about my hospital stay and like i was so so sick because of it and said she was lucky she's never had to be in my situation and that she works really hard on her MH and that she is successful and very mentally healthy - and i was unsure how the whole conversation became praising her Mh and putting down mine- only because I said I've been to hospital?

I'm proud I went to hospital. It's no biggie. U go, u get help, u get support, and u come out with some new tips. Hopefully u don't get too settled there and find a way to transfer the skills from there into ur "home life"

i'm still just a human, as are we all.

Guest_1055
Community Member
I can't do friendships or any other relationships. I just want to be free. A lot of the time I don't know what to say, how to be ( be maybe is the same as act) I don't want to act, I just want to be me

Emo
Community Member

Hi Everyone,

Why do people call you a failure due to the fact that you left your marriage due to horrific abuse by your husband? Isn't that something that should be applauded not made to feel like you are a complete failure because you can't even stay married?

Don't people realise that I am already kicking myself enough that I couldn't just keep putting up with the abuse anymore?

I reached out to a charity today for some help and the lady I spoke to wanted to know all about my life and why I needed help. I thought it would be enough to just say I am down on my luck but I was forced to go into incredibly painful detail just to get a food voucher.

I did everything she asked of me but as the charity is church based the lady said that as I'd left my husband they couldn't offer me any assistance as I had gone against God's wishes by leaving my husband.

I just thought that if she was truly a christian you couldn't turn anyone away, it wasn't like I was the abuser.

Regards,

Emo.

monkey_magic
Valued Contributor
I'm feeling anxious and I have butterflies and dream and think about an older work colleague who I've been chatting to for a few yrs and have gotten to know outside of work. We are similar in ways, flirt, talk openly and have recently spent time at a cafe together. There is a 24 yr age gap between us and I'm only a few years older than his daughter. I'm held back but I also have feelings for him and I think he has feelings for me. It's driving me crazy. Anyway I just had to vent this out...

Guest_1055
Community Member
Feel far away, gone into some other place. Not really here or realp

Friendships are hard yeah , and usually disappoint for me, strike me down but l expect a friend to be a friend , yaknow, seems a bit much though for most. l have different timing to most people too and they're never around when l'm in the mood , rather when it's the last thing l feel like.

rx

same rx

Guest_1055
Community Member

Sometimes I feel so over this. This existing.

Within me is a desire to be able to wake up and be really glad that I am here. To rejoice.

But is desire enough? I am not waking up glad. But the opposite.

Harpbird
Community Member
Just a day to be pain free . But that is too much to ask this broken body of mine.