Vent and then let it go...

[Guest_1055]

Not sure about anyone else but sometimes I just need to vent, including venting any frustrations, fears, hopes, worries, longings and anything else. Most of the time I don't want any advice or any responses. Just need a way to get it all out from within me.

So thought this thread could be for those sort of things. No one replys to you with words or anything. It's a place to let it all go. Just dump whatever it is you want to say and leave it here.

So yeah no replys please.

[mmMekitty]

If ever I lived with anyone ever again they MUST be a computer expert, and, as a bonus, also be a phone tech expert too.

IN return, they would not hear me going off about these when they do not work properly - 'cause they can come and fix QUICK!

[Doolhof]

hi mmMekitty,

When you find that person, can you send them to my place, along with a handyman and electrician!

It frustrates me when things don't work, when I don't know how to fix them and when someone wants hundred's of dollars to just look at a problem, let alone fix it, as live out bush.

Last week we had official notice a major trucking route would be constructed right out the front of our home. I don't cope with noise all that well.

I'm not having my work issues listened to or attended to.

Both my husband and I are struggling with our depression, a couple of thunderclouds in one house tend to block out any possible light and joy.

I know I have a lot to be thankful for, a break from depression and hassles would be nice.

[Guest_1055]

Sometimes I just don't want to be here. If I keep overthinking things then I see no purpose for my life. It makes no sense to me. Why can't I just get on with living instead of thinking so very deep about things. My brain just won't quit sometimes.

[ecomama]

After that person's been to yours Dools, send him over to mine lol... what a mess of half finished EVERYTHING I have here omg. Grrr.

Not so angry any more, thank goodness, about some horrible things my neighbour said to me yesterday. She's totally lost the plot and got so abusive and angry, I'm like WHY? and then why at ME?

Don't like that when we've only ever been helpful and loving to a person, they feel entitled to be abusive.
So NO CONTACT for her.
Loving my boundaries lol.

Bit shocked about a few situations at work. Now I'm feeling more positive about doing more on site days sooner, I need to get in there more and help more too.

Pretty sick of the state of things in my house SO I got busy today and leaf blew downstairs lol. The vacuum kept getting blocked and it was driving me nuts so the leaf blower worked a treat lol!!
Thinking of using my leaf blower for my loungeroom next, all the dust gets all in my hair and all over my clothes but for some reason it feels GOOD to get dirty and then wash it all off.

Like I've done a really hard day's work or something IDK.

Next venter....

Love EMxxxx

[gucia6]

so, Hubby is staying at home with kids this school holidays. So I think, great, I don't need to worry about anything.

But then I come back home to a chaos. I do not have OCD, but I do like when there is a pleasant (relative) order. I mean it was not too bad. They did cook, made and fold the laundry, went shopping and all. But things were everywhere. Not put back in the shelves, empty shopping bag just sitting there on the table, crumbs from lunch on the table, kids rooms a mess.

It really made me upset, that I come back from work and need to tidy the common living area before I can actually put record on and sit and relax while they were away.

Grrr...

I really am trying not to be too demanding, and a bit of a 'normal' daily mess is OK, but there is a limit of the messiness, and hubby doesn't seem to get it.

[Guest_1055]

Felt encouraged by this:

4 things you should let go of

~Worrying about the future

~Holding on to grudges

~Comparing yourself to other people

~Other people's opinions of you

[missep123]

HI Shelll,

I really related to what you posted.

I am a chronic worrier of the future, comparing myself to others and focusing on other people's opinions of me.

I think it is getting better through time!

[Harpbird]

I am totally over so called best friends saying hurtful things. They open there mouths before thinking. Then in the next breath they say what they think because they care.
well I would rather they not care

[Guest_1643]

Sad that I'm not where I should be. Sad that I was not properly diagnosed earlier, that the drs I saw focussed on exterior factors like my youth or nice cloths and such didn't believe me. And I didn't have the energy to argue and get properly helped. They didn't give me the help I need amd I missed put on valuable treatment and was given dangerously wrong meds and therapy.

[Guest_1584]

Hiya sleepy , l hope your ok atm with things there.

Once my doctor said to me , for all the same reasons , you look fine to me.

l was that disgusted with it and is total lack of . l left the building thinking , just wth. l look fine to him. Wth hell has the exterior got to do with anything what sort of a doctor could be silly enough to take any notice of that, how could any doctor possibly not know that means absolutely nothing. And l've had it from doctors since too.

rx