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Three self-care things you did today!

ecomama
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We can do it BBers, we can do self-care.

Sleepy21 pointed out research that shows self-care REALLY helps!

Please share what you do for self-care so we can get inspiration, ideas and motivation to do it too.

Best wishes
EM

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ecomama
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Valued Contributor

Hi Nobodee,

It's my favourite thing to do, look at nature.

You painted a beautiful picture that made me smile in your last post.

Nice.

EMxxxx

Guest_1643
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member

Yesterday i:

Left an event while triggered - got home safely and took a break

made a home-made chai

cancelled a gp appointment with a random gp which prbably would've just confused me - will wait longer to see my regular Gp who i know and trust.

Guest_1643
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member

bough and arranged some dried flowers for my home

warmed up my room to a nice temperature before bed

reached out to a helpline over the trigger

Time to myself in my room

Tidied up a bit

Reading

Sleepy21 & monkey_magic thankyou for your posts.

Seems like a few of escaping the company of others this week! And a fine thing too.. 🖤 that's a charcoal coloured heart Sleepy21 lol
💛 this one's for you monkey.

My self-care today:

* eating lunch

* spending time in my garden with my darling chicken

* doing grounding exercises after my Uncle left.

Love EM

Looks like I'm not the only one stepping back from company, the ol' social burnout has crept in. Today, I:

- Bowed out of a social engagement I didn't have energy for in favour of a day to myself.

- Am spending snuggle time with my birds.

- Have made a passive start on the jobs I want to do (started up the washing cycle while I have some coffee). Whilst doing jobs doesn't sound much like self care, achieving something useful in my day is a huge part of keeping my mental health in check - with my partner out, I can get some work done, and be chilled and ready for company again by the time he comes home.

Peeps I'm REALLY Proud of us also saying "no" when we need to... for how long did we say yes in efforts to please others and it was a bad idea?
Lol, STACKS of times for me....

More power to us beautiful people.

Blue's WHATEVER YOU consider self-care makes the list! Just post it and I'm proud of you! 😍

Sleepy21, I need to explain the charcoal heart lol... it's the new colour scheme in your home, so hence the charcoal, otherwise seeing your posts is a pink heart 💗 and then one with a sparkle because you're a sparkle to me 💖 and then a beating heart too💓. Hope you're feeling better.

My self-care for today (lol):

* stayed in my pyjamas ALL DAY LONG and it's fan-fairy-tastic lol

* made pancakes for breakfast and ate some

* had a LONG nap after breakfast

* talked with my American fiancee over the phone and we avoided talking about the elections! Now that's relationship care right there lol.

* tonight I'm having a long hot bath and using some girly scrubby things on my body. Yay.

LOVE EM

Guest_1643
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member

hey Em thank you for the hearts and for sharing a beautiful warm heart and a beautiful charcohl one for my home 🙂 love to u!

Inspired by the posts here - and pancakes... yesssssss.

- sat in the sun with a fruity tea

- listening to an online concert for something different

- nap on the couch to just get some energy

ecomama
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Valued Contributor

It's a pleasure treasure. 💗

I must put our pancake recipe on the Easy Peasy Recipe thread... it was from my children's teacher about 25y ago lol... and it's freaking AWESOME.

Love always EM

Not_Batman
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Hi EM and all.

Slept in

had a daddy-daughter movie day

did some work on a uni report.

went for a walk in the paddock with the dog.

Watched a movie with the rest of the family tonight.

your pancakes give me an idea, think i might make waffles in the morning.

Not_Batman

ps, i played some xbox tonight, and im not ashamed to say that i was Batman fo a little while 🙂