Hi CRookiss,
I’m so sorry to hear that you went through such a terrible experience at just 13 years old. It must have been incredibly frightening, especially given the significant age difference and the power imbalance involved. It’s deeply concerning that this person holds a powerful position now.
It’s good to hear that you’re writing your life story. That can be a meaningful way to reflect on your life, even though it brings up painful memories as well.
If someone asks whether they should report a crime committed against them, my instinct is always to encourage them to do so, given the possibility that there may have been other victims. At the same time, I completely understand why this situation feels complicated, given the person involved may be influential. A careful and informed approach can help — speaking with support services first, understanding your options, and gathering information before deciding how to proceed. That way, you can feel more prepared emotionally and legally when you report it.
We would recommend contacting Kids Helpline, since this happened when you were a child. They can talk through the possible benefits and challenges of reporting abuse many years later and help you explore your options. 1800RESPECT may also be very helpful. And of course, continuing to connect with supportive forums and communities here can also provide ongoing support.
Take care, Blue
