Hello Dear Quirky,
No, sweet lady you cannot call your your life problems trivial, at a young age those words spoken to us/you have a very big impact on our lives both then and now…It’s really hard to re train our brain from things we’ve heard and accepted in our younger age….its been drummed into us from an early learning age and it doesn’t really ever go away, the words and how they shaped our adult life….
Quirky, you have done amazing in life…you owned and operated a book store, that takes a lot of intelligence and dedication….you’re here on the forums helping many many people who feel they are lost and want to give up on life….also you’re volunteering your time to a charity shop….absolutely no hopefulness here…..or clumsy, disorganised at all….you done and are still doing these things….these are the things you should be thinking of….you proved them wrong with the things your passionate about doing…helping others💜..and that’s beautiful, worthwhile and you give hope to people who need it….
Believing in ourselves is very important….unfortunately it’s something that our younger self can take away from us..living each day in the moment and the best we can is so important to try to do….We are not at all who/ what people have said we were/are…We are us, we are unique and we try each day to be the best version of us…Dear Quirky you’re caring, compassion, inspirational and have a beautiful soul…I really do hope that you like yourself, we all like you for those qualities and I’m sure, untold, here on the forums, you have done, helped lots more people throughout your life….
My kindest thoughts with my care and hugs everyone…🌹🤗🦋🍀.
Grandy..
