Married 3 kids

[Tails91]

Hi all, I’m soooo lost and have been for s few years I’m sexually attracted to women and have been my whole life had a few girlfriends in my younger days but now married and have three children I really struggle in the bedroom with my husband I’m trying my hardest and do it maybe once a month if that to do the right thing by him but I really have to build myself up to it and I feel terrible but I seriously just not sexually attracted to males any more I I don’t think I can pretend anymore but wen it comes to women I’m all for it I’ve never ever cheated and never will but wen I think about women n kissing them and snuggling with themy guts go crazy n it turns me on. But I’m terrified to come out cause my family won’t accept it and i don’t want to hurt my husband even more then I do knocking him bak sex everyday I used to love it and say I did bysexual but i think it more then that now it’s like the more he hints m asks the more I can’t do it it’s like it pushes me away 5 kilometres more I don’t no wat to do or how to get my sex drive bak for him I’m sooooooo confused n stuck in s hole right now and it’s makinh my depression n anexity worse

[Birdy77]

Dear Tails,

Having kids is not such an unusual thing for a single gay lady these days, let me assure you.

My good friend I mentioned to you, she has 4 kids ranging from 4 - 15 yrs old, and this has not stopped her from dating and exploring her sexuality, sometimes with other lesbians who also have children. It's really not an unusual thing.

Did you have a look at qlife.org.au?

🌻birdy

[Tails91]

Dear birdy

yup I’ve tried but never seems to work for me unforchanly