im not sure how to move forward with my fiances family
at christmas some nasty things were said in a message and over the phone to my fiance after I was feeling left out and unsure of why there was a lot of whispering going on at family gatherings and gathered the courage to send a message to the family about it
we held family christmas at our house regardless of me being hurt and i was watching most of their kids during the day and was getting stressed , i found my fiances sister talking about me after i locked the kids out after chasing them all day and them even throwing balls near our tv. she said some hurtful things to me and i lost my temper and started yelling at her and for others to leave, everyone was very upset with me including my fiance to the point of him almost walking out on me
i was horrified by my own behaviour and when their was a family birthday the next day i made a point of apologising for my actions and owning up to what i had done
some people including my fiances brother didnt want to accept my apology
we are now 9 months down the track and some people are still whispering at family gatherings. We are due to get married next month and his brother and family have decided they are not coming and his sister that was saying nasty things in the kitchen has booked to go to NZ at the time claiming it was for a sick relative but their is a 30th at the same time she is attending. i am having a hens night this weekend which i organised as we are eloping and then celebrating with everyone and made sure his mum was invited and even she is being strange with me. There is a lot of family members that are fine with me but there is still a few that make me very uncomfortable as they exclude me or whisper about me
how can i move forward with them? i know what i did and apologised but it doesnt seem good enough 😞
