Hi all,
I am unsure of what I need but need a place to let my hurt out.
My world as I knew it came crashing down 3 weeks ago.
An argument about trust and poor judgement turned into me finding out that my husband of 17years (20 yrs together) kissed our 20yr old aupair (he's 40). I didn't see it coming. We where having a rocky patch but wasn't major and nothing we hadn't got through in the past. He says he took the cowards way out. I deserved so much more respect and so did our children.
Our marriage is over and unsalvageable but all these emotions are kicking my arse.
We live in a small country town and no one I know saw this coming but them.
We have 3 children, 14, 10 & 8. I stayed in the family home with them for routine and stability.
How do I get through this.
TIA
