Need Help to get through

[Shorty]

I need someone to talk too, im hurting so much in my heart. Any help and advice would be appreciated,  I literally have absolutely no one 😭

[Guest_92186648]

Hey 🙂 What's going on? I'm here to listen

[Sophie_M]

Hi There,

Thank you for your bravery in sharing with our online community.

We can hear how incredibly heavy the hurt has been to carry in your heart and how strong you have been, carrying it.

You do not have to carry it alone. When you are ready to share or feel comfortable sharing, we will be here for you Talk to a counsellor - Beyond Blue - Beyond Blue and our wonderful online community are here to listen and support you also.

Please be gentle with yourself. It takes real strength to reach out for support, so thank you for putting yourself first. 

With kindness,

Sophie M

 

[Ggrand]

Hello Dear Guest,

A very warm and caring welcome to the forums…

I am so sorry that you’re hurting in your heart so much…can I give you a gentle caring hug….I know it’s virtual but if I was standing next to you I would definitely give you one..🤗🌹🦋…

When you’re feeling up to it dear Guest, could you pop back in and tell us a little more of what’s hurting you, so we can support you the best way we can…

Sophie, has given some great contact numbers to ring….please don’t be afraid to ring them…I have rang them many times when I needed to..

We are here for you and we do genuinely care about you…

My kindest thoughts Dear Guest…

Grandy..

[Psychdiaries2]

Hey there,

Welcome to the forums and thank you for your bravery in reaching out on here, it is truly commendable! I am so proud of you for taking this first step into getting support.

This is a friendly, non-judgemental and confidential space for you to share what is on your heart. We will do our best to support you. Of course, if you need immediate support don’t be afraid to ring the BeyondBlue number. 

You are not alone in what you’re going through. You are strong, and can get through this. Provide us with more info if you are comfortable. We are here for you. Take care of yourself today. Sending love!

[Shorty]

Sorry only just seen this now. Im struggling in a bad relationship and I stay but I dont know what to do

[Shorty]

Im in a 5 yr toxic pattern relationship.  I have lost everyone. I dont feel strong enough to leave but I have no voice either

[Alikiwi]

Certainly sounds like you need to get out. I put up with one for ten years, so I'm happy to never be in a relationship again, though you would be much younger. You say you lost everyone else, by any chance would they want to help you if they knew you wanted out of this relationship? It could provide you with the needed support so may be worth exploring.

[ViolettaZ]

Hi there,

I’m really sorry you’re feeling stuck like this. Five years is a long time to be in something that feels toxic and draining. Losing your voice and support system must feel awful. I know it might not feel like it right now, but the fact that you can say this out loud shows there’s still strength in you.  What would make you feel even a little safer or stronger right now? What would make you feel even a little safer or stronger right now?

Warm regards🤗

ViolettaZ

[Michy007]

Hi Shorty
That's not a good position to be in. I don't have anyone either, no family, only a couple of 'real' close friends, yet they can't hold my hand while I continue to go through depression. Meaning, it's not realistic to think any one friend can continue to help us through, in the longer term. My problem different to yours, yet it's largely a feeling of being completely alone, because in many ways I am, plus 'stuck'in life atm. 
Wondering if you're comfortable sharing the issues you have with relationship? ie. 'bad relationship
Happy to chat more if you'd like to
Cheers
Michy