Hi MM. Well at least you know there's nothing to worry about. It's obvious you'd be feeling like 'crap'. You've been through the mill a bit in the last couple of weeks, what with sister and BIL's situation, not knowing if it's gone on record. On top of all that you're hoping to embark on a new career, I would be amazed if you didn't feel like you've been dragged through the wringer a bit. Now you need to concentrate on your own life and try and put the last couple of weeks behind you. I know it's easier said than done, but as each day closes, hopefully you'll start to settle down a bit. Once this police check for new job is done, that'll help your nerves too. I think, though, for your peace of mind, next time anything happens between sister and hubby, let them sort it out. Don't buy into anymore problems with them. Stay friends with BIL if you want to, but keep out of their matrimonial situation. I'm so pleased everything has been sorted, and hope everything goes well for your future. I'm sure the police check will be fine, that's standard practice. I recently had to get a police check done for the job I have. All that is, is to make sure there are no criminal convictions, you haven't been in jail, standard stuff. You'll pass with flying colours. All the best to you.
