My entire life, my Mum has never been a fan of birthdays, christmases, easter, any kind of family holiday thing. I missed out on what I felt like is a lot of family bonding time because both my parents were so negative around all of them. And I used to hate it but now I just accept I can never get involved in Christmases etc like I want to.
So, really, I dread my birthday and Christmas the exact same way they did when I was growing up.
But now for some reason, for the first time in ever, my Mum got upset with me because I didn't do anything for mother's day for her.
Am I a bad guy for not doing anything? Even though any year previously I've asked what she wants she never wants anything, or always blows anything off?
