i feel like i cant cope i need serious help
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In your post, you mentioned that your partner had to sign a "bind". How did this bind come about? To my knowledge, binds are used for minor criminal matters in a criminal court; but I am no authority on this matter.
Notwithstanding the above, the bind may not be enforceable if it separates a father from his child. In other words, the bind may be meaningless; but that will depend on the circumstances.