Im new here and i really just wanted to see what other people think i should do and how i could quiet my racing mind. I know I shouldn’t have but i went on my boyfriends phone last night because i always have had this ill feeling that he could be talking to other guys or hooking up with other guys. I went on his phone and went on X (formerly Twitter) and saw he looks at porn etc. which i dont care about because i do too but then i went to his dm’s and saw he was messaging different guys. I wanted to look at more but i just got really sick and had to stop looking at his messages but one that stood out was he said “you looking” i dont know what to say to him about it i brought it up to him saying are you talking to any guys or are you hooking up with other guys and he kept saying no but i dont know how to bring up that i looked through his phone and saw these messages. 😞
Looking st someone’s phone and then finding out something you wished you hadn’t is difficult as you are finding out.
If you say something to him you risk him being angry at you invading his privacy. Even if he was looking on line would he tell you. It is a hard decision and yo may need to be prepared not like his answer.
