Dear Family2026~
I'd like to welcome you here to the Support Forum. You sound as if you have no action you can take and are physically and emotionally drained yet need to break off your relationship.
I guess in order to give you more than general advice may I ask why you feel this way, is it perhaps because of the way you are treated, either by your huband or something else?
Being with children and no assistance or support or abiity to work in a foreign country is a very scary thing.
Can you think of any remedy the might allow you to stay? do you think it is something where family counseling might help?
You imply you wish to take the children with you back to the country that will support you , this is a very big legal matter and I would not be surprised if you are correct and your husband would object.
In general as I'm guessing at the issue so I'd suggest you consider the following:
Firstly, whatever happens see a GP and explain how you feel. Your feelings and your circumstances that lead you to being emotionally and physically drained to the extent you want to separate.. The GP may be able to help you cope, or refer you to someone who can.
Secondly find out your exact legal position - whether you take matter further or not. I can suggest Women's Legal Services who do not charge and are familiar with family matters. They have a branch in each state
Thirdly in any case have a discussion with one of our councilors (available 24/7) who may give you advice and may even know of a migrant service that can help.
If you would like to come back and say more that would be great
Croix
