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Hi Renee,
I’m really sorry this has happened. My partner broke up with me on Friday night as well and I’m feeling pretty horrible. It sounds as though you might be better off without him which I know is really tough to hear
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Hi Renee,
We we’re together 4 years. I think it’s normal because I feel the same way. I’m struggling to get out if bed today. I think we need to take it one day at a time. What are your plans today? Try to get out of the house if you can.
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Hi Renee,
it will get easier. I know it doesn’t seem that way but I promise it will. I’m in my mid 30s, I’ve been there a few times now and I’ve learned a lot from these experiences.
Everything does happen for a reason even if it doesn’t make sense at the time.
My advice is not to contact him at all. If he comes back on his own it’s meant to be.
also, even if you don’t feel like doing anything, make plans. Even if it’s only a small thing every day, like going out shopping with a friend or to the movies, even on your own.
Take this time to do the things you always wanted to do and be the best person you can be. For me, I’m going to the gym most days after work, saying yes to things I’m invited to, going to the movies on my own.
i watched crazy stupid love on Netflix last night and I enjoyed it. Watch it and tell me what you think.
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