coparenting and family issues

[Mel2334]

1. it is so hard talking to my coparent my ex I raise issues with my child we going through court process as well another thing he just does not Lisen to me and does not want me there as a mother and just thinks of his family and his mother and gf being in the picture and I do a lot as well , i was meant to have a phone call with my son which is court ordered as well and he never answered and told me a reason why did not answer me 

2. i did nothing to my mother and she has this cycle of blocking me as well and it hurts i wanted to help her and give her a gift and give my step father that like a step dad to me give him a gift she told me  not to and i know my step dad wanted it as well so i just left it i wished both my step dad and my dad happy fathers day i never really hear from my dad and i my step dad got back to me though, just hurts not hearing from my dad 

[Mel2334]

i had recent things happen to me with my father and my mother not only that my exes and ex husband and things going on with my child he said that has happened what dad did and his father girl friend as will and cause alot of pain how do people deal with this? i am seeing a counseller as well every week and i have support as well 

[Sophie_M]

Hi Mel2334, Welcome back to the Forums, it’s great to see you again. Thank you for continuing to share with us here. We hope this space continues to feel supportive and welcoming for you. We’re so sorry to hear how much of a toll co-parenting is taking on you. It’s such a complex and emotionally demanding experience, especially when nagivating a court process, too. On top of that, Father’s Day can be a really tough day for many people, and not hearing back from your dad would understandably have added to the hurt. With all of this happening, it makes complete sense that things might feel a little raw right now. It’s really encouraging to hear that you’re seeing a counsellor and have some support around you. Have you had a chance to talk with them about what you’re currently facing? Sometimes just saying things out loud can help lighten the load a little and help make sense of things. If you ever feel like talking more, Beyond Blue counsellors are available 24/7 on 1300 22 4636 or via webchat. Thank you again for posting. We hope reconnecting with the community brings some comfort. You’re not alone, we’re here to support you. Take good care of yourself today 💙

Kind regards,
Sophie M