Raped by my cousin

[Blind_and_in_pain]

When I was in my teens I was raped by my cousin I am now finding it hard to be in relationships and I am having trouble keeping happy. I keep breaking down into tears reciently

[Aaronsis]

Good Morning Blind and in pain

I am so very very sorry that this has happened to you, I have no idea the pain and the sadness not to mention the feeling of violation that you are going through every day.

It is so very brave to come speak out and get some support here.

I can only imagine the problems that are left with you to deal with after such a horrific event, not to mention the extra layer that it was by a family member, just horrific.

There are some wonderful wonderful support services available for you to reach out to that I feel like would be able to give you some support and some tools to deal with this event. One that comes to mind is Reach out and they are on 1800 RESPECT or 1800 737 732.

I am sure it not only impacts your ability to have a successful relationship but as I can hear, your ability to get through the day with joy and happiness, which is what you deserve.

I am so sorry this has happened to you and big big hugs for today.

Hope to chat to you soon

AS

[geoff]

Good Morning, and can I offer you a warm welcome to the forums.

I am just so sorry this has happened, it never should have to be taken advantage of and understand how you are feeling.

It would not be easy to come onto a site where you don't know anyone, but I am so pleased you have, and really hope we can help you in every way possible.

I hope that they have faced the law, however, I believe that you maybe in the age group to contact 'Kids Helpline' 1800 55 1800, or if you could copy and paste these in your search browser

-https://au.reachout.com › articles › sexual-assault-support',

-'https://www.healthdirect.gov.au › sexual-assault-and-abuse-helplines'

-https://yla.org.au › Topics › Health, love and sex › Sexual assault

Please let us help you to try and regain your confidence back in maintaining a relationship.

Our thoughts are with you.

Take care.

Geoff.

[Blind_and_in_pain]

Hi There. Thanks Geoff. I have tried to get some sort of closure but the police just did not care enough thanks for the suggestion of Kids help line but I am now in my 30's and still dealing with it a lot more then anyone can imagine

[monkey_magic]

Hi Blind and in pain,

Sorry about the unsatisfactory response from the police. You can call lifeline or the Beyond blue line to talk about the situation as well.

What you are going through sounds horrendous. It's true that sometimes these things are dealt with later on in life.

A psychologist could be a great person to help u process and confront some of this stuff.

Feel free to keep sharing if u feel comfortable we are always here to listen to you.

MM☆♡☆♡☆~~

[Blind_and_in_pain]

I have an appointment coming up with my psych not this Monday but the next one it was the earliest they could fit me in

[monkey_magic]

I'm really happy to hear that.

Ive been seeing a psych myself and they are uncovering things I didn't even know were there.

Good work 😀

[CKS]

Hi Blind and in pain

Oh how life changing this despicable event would have been! Seeing a psychologist is the best thing you can do for now. But I am also thinking it would be good to see a psychiatrist too, as they can prescribe medications if need be. You need to get as much support as you can as you work through the challenging transitions ahead. You can do it. Don't give up! One of the consequences of rape is having difficulties in relationships. You don't deserve to be having any difficulties associated with the crime your cousin committed. Let go and let genuine love come into your life.

My arms extend to you with love

CKS