Purple

[Purple_lady1]

Hi

Was recommended to start my own thread so here it is. The gist of it is I am unhappy, unmotivated and don't enjoy or look forward to anything. Am always tired and hate my life!

[Ggrand]

Hello Purple,

Im so really sorry about your fur buddy.

Im not really sure on this but I think you can go to the rspca, explain your circumstances and they might be able to put you onto a vet that does these tests a lot cheaper for you. Maybe give them a ring and see how you go. I'm not sure but I think they can help out a bit.

What about your mum, do you think she might be able to give you a loan that you could pay off over a period of time. Just my thoughts.

Kind thoughts,

Karen.

[Purple_lady1]

Hey Gg

Thankyou so much, both are excellent suggestions. I love hearing from you. I did ask somewhere around the tracks how your situation is going. Let me know if you want to. I have come to care about you. After reading your story I realize what a strong, enduring woman you are. I, sadly am trying to to make up for my weak, stupid, selfish ways. What a tangled web I weave. I guess my punishment is to have everything of importance taken away from me. Not a happy soul at all

Purple

[Ggrand]

Hello Purple,

Thank you for your kind words,

im pleased your happy with those suggestions just see how you go with them.

Thank you for caring about me, that means Gold to me as I feel the same about you,

You are taking baby steps now, and that is good, you will rise above this. I know you will,

My situation is and I think be on going for some time as yet, I want to bring my 3 sons together so they can be there for each other, They are interacting with each other that make me pleased. I had such a close and relaxed relationship with my 2 sons that I raised, my younger son I still have it, My eldest blames me for not being strong enough with my hubby, as I do blame me, there childhood was not a good one.

Please honey, your not weak, selfish or stupid, you made some mistakes as everyone does, wow I have made heaps,

We need to forgive ourselves ( I'm still trying). to move forward, once we forgive ourselves, we emit a happier air around us which shows to other people, which forms conversations and connections.

Are you still going to take your adorable fur buddy to the meetings?

As I said earlier, because no one knows who you are, if you want to share a little of whats causing your struggles maybe I can help with some suggestions. If you don't want to that's okay as well.

I hope everything will work out with Scooby, and it's nothing serious.

Kindness only

Grandy.

[Bethie]

Hi Purple

I dont often jump on this thread but i do read it. I had major issues with my mum for years untill i finally went into major theropy and by major I'm talking 3 sessions a week talking through everything from first memories to present. It was hard to the point of nearly breaking me but it was one of the most worthwhile things I've ever done. It gave me the tools to beat so many things in my life and know that everyone has bad times but its ok to feel those. They dont hold power over me anymore. I took back myself. Easier said than done but on bad days i can smile because i remember how i was and how much I've made it through in life.

You can do that as well. Grab a pen and paper and write without thinking. Even if its just scribbles or saying F everything it helps as a outlet for release.

[Purple_lady1]

Hi

I'm sure if I spoke to someone about my mum issues they woul find a lot of built up anger and god knows what else

Purple

[Bethie]

So the question is do you want to get those feelings resolved and stop letting her hold power over you?

[Ggrand]

Hello Purple,

Im sorry it's been a while since I posted on here to you, I feel guilty for that, I know you need support but I'm finding it so difficult to give it to you atm, the reason being I am sinking, and I don't know what words to say to help you. I am afraid I will say the wrong thing and upset you, I care for you to much to do that to you.

Please don't put yourself down, you are really a lovely person. Keep trying to beat this, I know you can do it. I'm trying, let's try together, okay 🌈. I believe there is a rainbow somewhere out there and I will find it one day, so will you, I know you will.

Kindness only,

Grandy

[Ggrand]

Hello Purple,

Im just checking in on you to see how you are feeling. I'm sending you a 🦋 for peace, a 🤗 Hug for comfort, a 🌟 because you are a star and a ❤️ because I care.

Kindness only,

Grandy

[Purple_lady1]

HI

How do I resolve them

Purple

[Ggrand]

Hello Purple,

Its good to hear from you,

How are you doing?

Grandy