Purple

[Purple_lady1]

Hi

Was recommended to start my own thread so here it is. The gist of it is I am unhappy, unmotivated and don't enjoy or look forward to anything. Am always tired and hate my life!

[Feeling_Lonely]

Oh Grandy, I’m so sorry to hear about your friend and your fall down the stairs. I’m sending you the biggest hugs, love and light. Life really does feel unfair sometimes. I wish there was something I could say to take away the pain and the hurt, just know that you are not alone, you have all of us here at B.B. to support you and treat you with love and kindness.

I really admire your strength and positivity. Happiness is indeed a state of mind and unfortunately it gets overly influenced by external factors. We all need to strive to find inner peace and happiness deep within ourselves.

My thoughts are with you at this time, please take care of yourself xo

[Ggrand]

Hello Feeling Lonely, and Purple

Thank you so much for your hugs and kind Care.. so needing it today.. FL, the hugs and Care, you just gave me has helped so much..

One day I will get a break and then happiness might absorb into me.. but for now, I've got to search for it, and deal with these sore bones and bruises..lol gotta laugh at it but, I must have looked funny, so pleased that no one saw me until I got up and composed myself..

Kind thoughts only,

Grandy..

[Purple_lady1]

Hi

Well plans spoiled. I was going to se a friend but she cancelled on me so now I have to face the whole day with this feeling of rejection. I can't organize my life. I'm at my best typing on this site. You guys are always there and ready to listen. You guys are the best. I feel comfortable talking about how I feel and there is no judgement. Don't feel good at all today and I have a rotten headache. I get migraines and have migraine medication but it doesn't seem to be working this time. It usually does. I am not feeling good at the op shop but I will keep trying for now as it might get better.

[Ggrand]

Hello Purple,

Im sorry your friend cancelled today, maybe an something popped at that needed her/his attention and couldn't be pushed back.. Maybe give your friend a ring and ask if they would like to make another date for an outing..

Im sorry about your migraine, I also get them, I use a cool damp towel around my neck as well, that seems to help a lot, as it cools the neck muscles off.

please if you can, continue as much as you can in the op shop, The volunteer work can help you in a few ways, especially your reference , character, if you can follow instructions, eagerness to learn, etc. this could help in landing another job later..

Hang in there Purple, I'm feeling the loss of my friend a lot and with the pain from me falling down the steps, I'm feeling pretty low and sore..

Your pretty awesome as well, I can't wait until you start to see what a nice person you are, then get some positives happening..

Take care, kind thoughts,

Grandy..

[Birdy77]

Dear Karen,

I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your dear friend. I hope you are being very gentle with yourself and allowing yourself to cry and ride the emotions the come up for you.

You are feeling bruised physically as well, with your tumble, & I'm glad you can have a little giggle about that, but I'm so relieved it didn't do you more damage.

Take great care of dear Grandy and remember to give yourself plenty of space and care to grieve this loss of your friend.

Love 🌻 birdy

[Ggrand]

Dear Birdy,

Thank you very much for your kind words and Care, Birdy.

I would like to echo your word to me back to you.

I really am so sorry about your brother, it is so sad and devastating when you loose love ones. No words can ever relay the feeling we feel when trying to comfort one by words. My heart and love goes out to you Birdy.

Take your time to heal and grieve as well. Be gentle and kind to yourself, anytime if you ever need to talk, and I can be of help please call into one of my other two threads.

Not sure if you like hugs, but if your sitting or standing here in front of me now, I would give you a reassuring caring hug. 🤗🤗🤗.

kindness only,

Karen.

[Feeling_Lonely]

Hey Purple,

I’m so sorry your friend cancelled on you. It’s hard when we are already feeling low when things don’t go to plan. Try not to take it personally though, something legitimate may have come up that prevented them from being able to make it or perhaps they are experiencing their own issues. I second what Grandy suggested by reaching out and trying to reschedule. If it doesn’t happen, remember that is a reflection of them, not you.

I’m still so happy for you that you were accepted to volunteer and I hope that this role brings you some joy by giving you purpose and an opportunity to meet new people. Even having random conversations with customers can be a nice distraction.

We are always here for you. I feel the same, when I’m feeling really low I always find myself here where I can speak freely without judgement. It has been a saviour for me. I’m glad you feel the same by being here.

[Ggrand]

Hello Purple.

Im so really sorry you are still feeling so bad.

I am not really in a good spot to help you at the moment I'm doing it really hard atm,

I seem to have failed you, I'm very sorry for that, I need to go as I'm not doing good.

Look after yourself, try as hard as you can to find some happiness. Kind thoughts

Grandy..

[Ggrand]

Hello Purple,

I noticed that your thread here has been very quiet lately. Just checking in to see how you are going. I hope you are doing okay.

Kind thoughts,

Karen.

[Purple_lady1]

Hi

I have had a bit of extra work lately so have been a bit busy. Today I feel so lonely for my son and my sister the only two family members who won't bring me down but they are so far away. I feel so alone today. I think it is the loneliness that depresses and scares me. I would love a big family where you are never alone. We can but wish. I seriously have no idea what to do to make me feel better

Purple