i need help please

[Jackson1994]

is there anybody there

i need some help i cant cope with this anymore please help

- jackson

[Jackson1994]

Oops, I pressed post too early.

They are both doing well, W has just taken off he’s just growing so quick, the last 3 months has flown by. He’s doing well health wise despite some little concerns along the way.

Don’t get me a wrong, I love H of course I do, but coming home from work now I just want to get home to see him, whereas before I was going home just because I did, like I left work then went home to do whatever I felt like. Now, I look so forward to walking in the front door at the end of the day.

Mum has got W for a few hours tomorrow, H and I are going out just us which will be really nice. First time leaving him with someone else for longer than an hour so H is a little stressed but it will be fine, Mum will love it.

[Doolhof]

Hi Jackson,

I think it is wonderful and important for you and H to have some time alone. Hopefully neither of you will be to stressed leaving W for a while. At least these days mobile phones help keep us in touch with each other.

I'm sure it is only natural to want to see your son when you come home from work. The love you have for H is different to the love you feel for W.

Hope all goes well with work one way or another. Have a great weekend!

Cheers from Dools

[Jackson1994]

Thanks Dools, had to remind H softly this morning that Mum has done it all before, leaving sticky notes on everything and details notes is ok but she probably won’t read them.

We had a nice day. But I am exhausted, I think we all are, just about ready for bed.

[Doolhof]

Hi Jackson,

Sometimes it can be a bit of a balancing act working out parenting techniques and styles from one generation to the next, even one person of the same age to the next.

I've know of some people that don't talk anymore because they have had different thoughts and theories on how children should be raised.

It is wonderful that H is such a loving and dedicated Mum that she left notes around for your Mum.

Hope you all sleep well!

Cheers from Dools

[Jackson1994]

Yeah I know, gotta cover all bases, haha.

Very tempting not to check in every 5 minutes, but we did it, another first ticked off for all four of us. I take W down for a walk on the beach every night before bed, and have done that nearly every night since the week he came home, but we didn’t make it down there tonight, out like a light.

I’m doing well, I have had a rough month or so. Really finding life hard but I think I’m ok at the moment, I have lots to smile about.

[Doolhof]

Hi Jackson,

I love the nightly walks down to the beach with W, that is excellent. A wonderful time to bond together and share your connection with the ocean.

Do you find it confusing when life is both wonderful and unpleasant at the same time? I know I do. I just want everything to be good! Maybe we need the rough stuff so we grow and develop into healthy people!

All the best from Dools

[Jackson1994]

Just a few minutes at the end of each day, it helps me unwind from work too.

Yeah, it’s uncomfortable, I just don’t know at the moment what’s going on.

[Jackson1994]

When you don’t know if you got the job but they call to double check what day you are availible to start, if I am successful, hmm sounds suss to me.

[Jackson1994]

So i really hope I get this job...

Just found out today my car needs urgent repairs, asap, could be costly, it’s now in the mechanics. This comes after we organised to have some work done on the house, which is also urgent

cool

hahaha

i feel sick

this is great, where am I supposed to pull money from? my own butthole? I don’t think so.

this sucks

[CMF]

Hi J,

I feel for you. Everything at once. I know both are urgent. Can 1 be delayed a little? Can your folks help at all?

They say when things are not going right it is because you are being pushed toward greater things...

I hope you hear good news about the job soon.

Hang in there.

Cmf x