how do i stop crying

[Matchy69]

I feel so alone,i dont have many friends or anyone who wants to know what i am going through.I just find my self just breaking down and crying.I just want some one to listen and not to judge me.

[Matchy69]

Hi Mum52 things didn't go real good with the surgery and they couldn't control the bleeding and now it's infected.

[Mum52]

Hi Matchy So sorry that things didn't go so well in your operation. Hopefully they have improved a bit by now. You have been through so much recently I really hope you are getting some help with things. It seems like your the one always helping others please ask for help if you  need it. Take care Mum52

[Matchy69]

Hi Mum52 I am slowly recovering and it will take awhile for a full recovery.I have to go to get my dressing changed and wound cleaned out everyday and will have to go in everyday this week to have it done.They said they will hopefully be able to drop it back to every second day the following week.The heat here hasn't been helping.

[Mum52]

Hi Matchy Sorry your recovery is slow. Do you have someone to take you for your treatment or are you managing yourself. The heat definitely doesn't help things. Fortunately we have had a few cooler days but is going up again from tomorrow.  I hope you have a bit of relief from the heat. Do you have any hobbies or activities that you can do while you are recovering? After I had a car accident quite a few years ago reading was about the only thing I could do for a few weeks. Thankfully the weather was cooler and I could  sit outside for awhile. It's hard to be patient when we can't do the things we want or need to do but your recovery is the most important thing. Take care Mum 52