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Trying to make sense of life

Alannah57
Community Member
I’m trying to make sense of this thing called life, and I’ve been trying to do it since I was probably at least six years old. There are days where the silent despair of being alive just follow me around and I just want to get away from that feeling. I think that life is so sad - for everyone. I feel like I don’t belong here.
I feel like I can’t run away from the heavy meaninglessness of life, and I’ve been trying to my entire life and I’m exhausted.
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Sophie_M
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Hi Alannah57,

We’re so grateful to have you reach out to our community tonight and are so sorry to hear about what you’re been going through. We hope that you find our forums to be a safe and supportive space to talk through your thoughts and feelings. Our community is here for you. We’ve also checked in with you via email to provide you with some additional supports. Keep checking in to let us know how you’re going, whenever you feel up to it.

fifithebunni
Community Member

Hi Alannah57,

You must have been a very insightful child, and an old soul (in a way), to be thinking about this question at 6 years old. I must admit that I find it exceedingly cute, and precious.

As to the answer to this question, how to make sense of this thing called life, I suppose that's one of the ultimate questions that our most brilliant minds and deepest souls have been trying to figure out since civilisation began? If I'm not to worry about sounding ridiculous here, I think the fact that life has an end gives it enough meaning. We are all here for a brief period of time, really. And when we're gone, if you're a dead-fast atheist, we're going to be gone for a long time, for ever actually.

I'm not a dead-fast atheist, and I don't know where this all leads, for me. I take comfort in that I'm still open-minded and curious about it all. But I do believe that there's something unfathomably magical about this life we're living, when we have our senses to feel the world, and have concsiousness to feel about ourselves, and have perspective of ourselves in this world, and of our little world (planet earth) in the infinitely vast, cold, dark, silent universe. If nothing else, at least we can take our time and just let it run it's course, have some tea or coffee, doing anything 'meaningless', as the night will come, and then the morning. There will be a time when this all ends for each of us, and before that time comes, even the simplest pleasure is worth cherishing, isn't it?

I'm personally waiting for the opportunity to sit by the beach eating hot chips with ample ketch-up, while risking being pooped on by seagulls.

Is there something that you look forward to? (apart from winning a 2 million jack pot? :P)