The best things in life no longer make me feel good anymore/single/lonely/no one to talk too/OVER IT

[Willstar]

Hi Everyone,

I have found lately that the things that always made me feel good, no longer make me feel good anymore.

I have been single for years now and I am finding not having someone to talk to or hang out with is making me feel, depressed, lonely, and worthless.

I am finding that I don't have any friends I can hang out with these days, as I have made a huge lifestyle change. Which makes me feel like I am lonely. This then brings me right down and I start thinking stupid thoughts in my head.

Personally I don't know how much I can take of feeling like this. I really wish I had a support of friends I could hang with on a regular basis, that understood my feeling.

[Marcsa]

Hi Willstar,

I hear you. At the moment, I'm feeling the same. I think it's good that you've reached out to the Beyond Blue forums. I'm pretty sure you will find similarly affected people. Is there anything more you can add to how you have come to this point in your life?

M

[PatT]

Hi Willstar,

Can I ask what that huge lifestyle change was exactly? Was it for the best or has it contributed to you feeling like this? Is there anywhere you can go to meet new people like a sporting group or some kind of social club? Have you thought about speaking to a psychologist about where you're at at the moment? Just a few thoughts/questions for you.

Pat