Hi risingangel
I'm so sorry for your loss. I know it's really hard right now without your grandad and that you're really sad. I'm sending you a hug.
People grieve in many different ways, there really is no right or wrong. Writing letters to your grandad is perfectly fine. If I were you, I would write as often as you feel the need and I would save those letters. Years, even decades from now, those letters may bring you comfort.
My dad died 30 years ago. I kept a journal and wrote down funny stories about our life and lots of detail about my dad, the kind of things I never wanted to forget. I included photos and mementos, too. It is still one of my most treasued possessions.
In the immediate years after my dad died I used to talk to him a lot. Sometimes at the cemetary and sometimes just when I was alone in the garden or my room.
It's okay to talk or write to the dead. Many people do this because it's one way to help us heal.
I'm here if you want to talk some more. Feel free to post any time.
Kind thoughts to you
